Would a 45 yr old think a 29 yr old is too young for him to date?

[Anonymous]

I am attracted to a 45 yr old. But he looks 32. I just turned 29 yesterday. Would he still see me as a kid? I know many older 50 something yr olds refer to people in their 20s as just kids.

Perverts who say age is nothing but a number, please dont answer.

[itsannalee]

Maybe he has his own rules, not to date someone more than 15 years younger than him, or something like that.
Or it was just his excuse to not dating you, he is not interesting to you, you are not his type. But afraid to hurt your feeling that’s why he use age as an excuse.

[caitycat21]

At 29 you’re grown, if you like him go for it and see what happens. My moms around that age tho and she would probably see you as a kid, it all depends I guess

[Anonymous]

Probably. I once considered a woman 15 years. younger than me. It's highly unlikely I ever do it again. There's simply too much of an age gap. And as much as you want to think you might have something in common. It's typically all in your head.

[Asker]

So why do so many older men want to date a much younger woman?

[nawtee_me]

Personally I would not see you as a kid. If a person is an adult then they are an adult in my eyes. When it comes to relationships if both people are of age and it is consensual then they should go for it.

[Anonymous]

people in their 20s have the same voting power to cancel out someone in their 40s

we gotta stop infantilizing them and creating a society of overgrown children

[slatyb]

No, he would be thrilled. Ask him. Because of the age difference, he probably won't ask you.

[DerekC321]

No, I don't think so, necessarily. Depends on the guy.

[Shihab_91]

Im not 45 but in my opinion they are two adults if they are okay with it then who am i to say its okay or not 🤷🏻‍♂️

[sawno]

Plenty of men are open to dating younger

[Asker]

Plenty of pervs out there dating you for the wrong reasons

[sawno]

Yup, one of the reasons I wouldn't be open to it. But considering men of all ages consider 24 year old girls physically attractive there's plenty who wouldn't mind and just want their fun. Look at all the wealthy old men for example, they tend to date young to.

[Asker]

Im not interested in dating a pervert. I want a high quality man

[sawno]

Which is fair, but a high quality older man is going to be suspicious or extremely in demand. Assuming suspicious you will have to convince him somehow your not just in it for his wealth.

[Asker]

I have my own money, i make almost as much as he does

[sawno]

Thats a good sign, will give off an equal vibe rather than an opportunist vibe. Just go for it and see what happens i'd say.

[Asker]

Im just asking cuz many 50 yr olds have refered to me as a kid , in the past

[jahaims]

Depends on the individual obviously

[Benlovegs]

I’m 49 and I’d date a lady your age

[Anonymous]

LOL! No. 29 is never too young to date!