Have you ever been in a love triangle?

Question

My friend is in one and it's pretty fucking sad because someone is going to get hurt.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

Once where another guy and I were both interested in the same girl. I lost.

msc545 · Accepted Answer

Ihave. It was miserable.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Yes. A guy liked me and another girl liked him. It was not cool and I would not want anyone to be put in that position.

Account · Answer

No that has never been amongst my interests.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah and I lost. She choose him (and later married him) and friendzoned me. But I misinterpreted that is her giving me a chance. The friendzone concept wasn’t well understood back when I was in college.

In hindsight my gut knew exactly what was going on but I was caught up in fantasy that “I could take her back” at the time. If I had a Time Machine I would of called her out on it, wished her best of luck, accepted my loss and never spoken to her again. She was trying to piecemeal “the perfect man” at the time and it was 110% bullshit.

But I also been in the reverse situation. Two girls who were friends both liked me. I fooled around with both of them but didn’t get in a relationship with either. In retrospect that wasn’t cool at all either. But this situation just came upon by chance. I didn’t create it Jaír because I enjoyed seeing them get jealous and fight among each other.

One key difference I noticed in genders about “love triangles” is men don’t look to setup this bullsh*t. We might find ourselves in this situation by chance but we again we don’t intentionally create it just because to get off on the drama.

Women on the other hand fantasize about the being the “prize girl”. Every romance movie almost always has two guys going after one woman. Never the other way around.

NathanDavis · Answer

hmm, nope... not quite

there were sometimes in which a good friends of mine liked the same girl I did... but it wasn't like they was love involved, just a crush... and we didn't bother with it, so no drama

there were also times in which I met someone really interesting but they still had lingering feelings about a previous relationship so I didn't mess with none of that

and there were other times in which friends of mine, or people close to us had a thing for the girl I liked, but... she was in love with me an I her, so no triangle there...

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

Yes I was apart of a 💛☣️⚠️
got tired of hooking up
with nobody else
besides just him
I was more bored
Than I was "In Love"
My only Desire was
to be a Whore

My obsession with
the other guy
Lasted longer
And was stronger
Than my actual relationship with my Ex

I no long gave AF
told my ex boyfriend
"The guy I really want
Is the cheese
I'm the mouse
You're the cat"

Im sorry if that makes me
sounds like a Bitch
but I'm guessing that sort of came into play for breaking his heart
*shrug* oh well
The next girl
Will clean up that mess
and do a better job at it too
I'm sure

DollAlone · Answer

Yes between my ex-boyfriend and my new boyfriend and it was the best time of my life maybe for selfish reasons but when one pissed me off I would run to the other one and vice versa to where it got to the point where they at first hated each other then they became good friends and they turned on me

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Oh, yeah, baby!! I've been in 3 of them!! All 3 of them felt pretty nice, soft, wet & warm!!
OH!! You mean, like, in a relationship: I love her she loves him and he loves somebody else? Yeah, pretty much 4 of those. Maybe more but they never panned out into anything. She ALWAYS went with him instead of me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep, I have even been in a love “square” lol. The love square eventually turned into a love triangle and now it’s just the two of us (me and my current boyfriend). Not going to lie, it was very exciting being in a love triangle but at the same time very painful.

In my case though, I was not the Bella of the triangle. My boyfriend was the one having to choose between me or his ex. I was ready to talk away but that was when he realized that he didn’t ever want to lose me.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really, but one time I had a guy who wanted sex with me and a friend of mine.
Instead of just telling us, he was trying to pursue both of us individually and neither one of us wanted to, because he was acting like a dick.
Eventually he moved on to another girl, and still tried to get me to have sex with the two of them, but by then my interest was already gone, lol.

lorenzomichael · Answer

No not me I’m not like that however I’ve had a lot of women come and go in my life. Infact I believe I’ll have a new girlfriend within the next 4 to 5 months from now. I don’t know what’s up with women I mean just when I think things are going well they want to take it to a new level. WTF

Zack-Bann · Answer

As in loved someone who loved someone else?  Yes I have More than once But I was young and wanted what I couldn’t have like a spoiled brat  Now I know to pick my battles  And avoid futility

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. My ex boyfriend's brother and cousin were in love with me. I broke things off with him because the situation was weird.
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Nikki1989 · Answer

That has been our reality for 5 years, and it is a beautiful thing. It is never a problem when you are all on the same page and have no insecurities.

Anonymous · Answer

One time I had crush on two guys at the same time but I'm pretty sure it was all one sided we were also not from the same religion so it wouldn't have worked anyway.

exitseven · Answer

No, but my former girlfriend had a boyfriend when we met. She told me she wanted to be with me and her boyfriend was a weasel

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. If I ever found myself in one I'd bail out. No reason to deal with that drama when there are millions of normal women out there.

pierre7i · Answer

My best female friend comes to stay with me every few weeks for 3-4 days, sometimes her girlfriend comes with her and we will have an lovely long ffm sexual session together - does that count?

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes multiple lol I was unaware of it though

Delia2005 · Answer

No but seen something happen didn’t end well. Someone took their own life.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

One person has the power and is living the control. Why put up with this?

Anonymous · Answer

Depends I would never fight over a woman mostly if it's my friend if we both had an eye on the same girl I'd just back out cause hell naw

Anonymous · Answer

It happens damn two sisters it was horrible  But that was then I have learnt from that lesson it was really crazy damn 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I've nevr been in any kind of relationship.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Thankfully no. She should get out of it.

NewWaves · Answer

Yes and it was awful.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Sorta back in the day.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

nope

12karen · Answer

sadly, yes, it was awful,

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Once or twice

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nope..

paledreams · Answer

Hmmm 😏 potentially

periodicelement · Answer

Yes and I liked it

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