Does it seem like super good looking people tend to be really quiet in personality and people of the opposite gender flock to them regardless of that?

[Smotionald]

I’m watching this dating show and the “most attractive men and women there were getting chosen by most of the cast mates constantly but yet these people were so quiet and you barely got a sense of who they were or what they were about. It’s actually funny to watch this.

it’s like they could be cardboard cutouts compared to everyone else and people would still chose them repeatedly because they look amazing.

im super quiet but I don’t think I’m super attractive so it’s funny to see super quiet attractive people literally do next to nothing personality wise and yet everyone wanted to date them the most.

[Stevepro68]

Really? I see this as basic human behavior. It's hard to guess who had the best personality or compatibility. When you first met someone. I've known phenomenally beautiful women who as soon as I get to know them are terrible people. And you know what? they just don't seem as attractive anymore. It's not sour grapes I mean I honestly didn't find them attractive anymore.

[slatyb]

There are plenty of attractive people who don't think they are all that. My wife and I were very attractive in our youth but neither of us thought we were very much. My wife didn't think of herself as attractive until she met me. Now she does.