Do short guys have a chance with tall girls?

[Suvorov]

Im just 5'4 and im really attracted by tall girls. But everytime i meet one im instantly friend zoned or maken fun of. Should i just give it up and find someone my height?

[Anonymous]

I know this doesn't quite answer your question, but as a leg guy DAMN! Look at the LEGS on that girl! I absolutely love it when tall girls with long legs aren't afraid to show them off! According to a reverse image Google search her name is "Adriana Lima." I shall write her name down for uh... science. Apparently she has even more sexy leg pics!

Google also tells me she's "only" 5'10 as well, so the guy must be pretty short as he looks an entire foot shorter than her. With the height difference I was expecting her to be like basketball player height like 7'0 or something. Though I also saw a bunch of people photoshopping this picture as well as others similar to it, especially on Deviantart, so it might be fake. Still a beautiful woman though, regardless if she's 5'10 or 7'0.

To actually answer your question though... yes, short guys do have a chance with tall girls. Not gonna sugarcoat it, you'll have a much harder time than tall to average height guys, as most women regardless of who they are want a guy who's taller than her to make her feel dainty and protected. But (almost) nothing is impossible I'd say. I still genuinely believe that most women would take a confident short guy who has his shit together over an insecure tall/average guy who is a complete mess in every aspect of his life.

[Suvorov]

The photo is most likely photoshopped...
Yeah i know its gonna be tough since im Also not very confident 😅

[Anonymous]

sure, they have a chance but a very slim chance at that

all things considered equal, they would prefer a taller man over a shorter man

even aside from that, short men need to bring a lot to the table and have less margin for error than taller men, basically the more attractive you are, the more bullshit they let slide off you, less attractive equals more harsher judgement

[Suvorov]

Yeah thats true. Im not super handsome or rich so its even worse for me...

[Opinion Owner]

I can't really give you much advice because not all advice is tailored made to all individuals. you really have to figure it out on your own. though I can point out certain realities

[Screenwriter]

You should always go for what you're attracted to, but remember your disadvantage. This culture values men who are taller than the women they seek.

If you have a great personality, job, interests, you can outperform boring guys who think because they're tall, alone, it makes them attractive. That's bull. It's the "BIG DICK SYNDROME."
"Because I have a big dick, that is all I need to attract and keep a woman." No it's not.

Don't believe the hype. You WILL have to work harder to get past the stereotypes and attitudes, and prejudice, but there's a taller woman out there for you! Keep at it!

[Suvorov]

Thank you. I hope you're right

[RingOfFire]

"This culture values men who are taller than the women they seek."

"You WILL have to work harder to get past the stereotypes"

It's not just "culture" or "stereotype," it's nature and natural design he will have to overcome, a much tougher opponent and culture or stereotype.

But the encouraging news for him is that there are plenty of people who deviate from natural design.

[Screenwriter]

@RingOfFire Nature and "natural design"? Dunno what you mean. That some females think a man's physical height is more important than the content of their character or their skillset?

Maybe WAAAAYYY back in cave man times height was a survival advantage. Hardly so today. We all have access to step-up stools and ladders today. I have them all over my house for interior cabinet grabs and for exterior house work since I"m 5.1.

Though I've known tallish men my whole life, their heights were only an advantage when I needed something in a high cabinet. Maybe longer arms might give them a strength advantage over a small man. But, again, in a modern world, unless you're in a trade that requires excessive physical strength, your height isn't of much advantage.

[RingOfFire]

Instinct doesn't change with the culture or availability of resources, it's built into our DNA. Women favor taller stronger men because men are designed through millions of years of evolution to provide and protect. In fact it's still necessary today for survival as the military is populated almost entirely by men as is necessary to protect the village. Same as true of law enforcement. Manageable as protectors and providers is still relevant today and necessary for survival.

As I mentioned there are still individuals who deviate from natural design. That has been true throughout history. Most rules have exceptions.

[Viola_456]

Im 5'11 and dated a 5'6 guy before.

Its not gonna be easy for you but you can find girls that dont care about height or even like shorter guys. Dont give it up, if your attracted to tall you should find girl like that. Its not gonna work if you date a girl you're not attracted to.

[Suvorov]

Gosh girl you look stunning ❤️

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't want a very tall guy, a tall guy is more dangerous if he happens to be violent. Until you learn more about him, you don't know if he is a peaceful person or a violent one.

[AviatorTom]

Look what the guy in the picture is staring at. I'm pretty sure he's not thinking about his height. And you shouldn't either.

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[emeraldsaphire]

It really comes down to what she's into. Honestly I wouldn't want to date a guy shorter then me. The taller the better. They don't need to be 6ft or anything, but I'm shallow. I could be won over though

[Daniela1982]

The same chance an ice cube has in hell.

[BeetleBro2000]

Technically I'm short and my wife is tall, but we are both actually the same height. I think you have just about the same chance as with any other girl.

[thatshydork]

Yes. I’m 5’10” and I used to like a guy who was like 5’2”.

[Suvorov]

Thats great ❤️ wasn't he emasculated by that? And didn't you mind it?

[thatshydork]

I don’t think he was and I didn’t care. As long as we’re both treating each other well who cares?

[Anonymous]

You may not like to hear this but I think it’s very true it’s likely the majority of women prefer a man who is taller than themself buts it’s also true there may be some women taller than you who may consider giving you a chance.

[Joshydavid25]

Of course, there are short or shorter guys with tall women.. There's tall girls out there who are opened..

[Suvorov]

There are but you dont see that many... Especially with bigger height difference

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, you usually don't, but with enough charisma and persistence, you'll find a good tree to climb..

[Nikki1989]

I have a short male friend who married a tall woman, so you must have a chance.

[Suvorov]

Thats great ❤️ IS the height difference big between them?

[Nikki1989]

He is shorter than me, so around 5 feet. She would be 5 10' at least.

[Anonymous]

Attitude is everything. Obsessive and hateful personalities get nowhere regardless. Keep the short man syndrome in check and they have a much better chance.

[art84]

I know a guy who is short like 5'5 and his girlfriend is like 5'9. The guy jokes around with her and she loves it and jokes back. If he can get a girlfriend then maybe you can as well.

[Anonymous]

Some tall girls are more tolerant than that. After all, a lot of them have trouble finding dates too. (Not all though; some tall girls are as beautiful as models or actually are models.)

[Unit1]

You have less chances if you stop talking to women. Andrew Tate would give you the exact same advice as he would give a tall guy.

[exitseven]

Yes, you are only as short as you allow yourself to be.

[andreasderjuengere]

Just register as a Republican.

Their biggest losers still score a shot now and then.

[Hellraiser1984]

Yes. If they truly love you they won't care about height, weight or stuff like that. Just don't make it an issue.

[Tomisworthless]

Make fun of them back, she's a giant who is she to pass judgment upon a short man? Go climb that tree my friend

[Lynn2001]

^^^^

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yes short guys have a chance with tall girls. It's about personality and compatibility.

[Anonymous]

@Suvorov

You have a chance but it is low. You may have better chances against girls who are shorter than you

[Anonymous]

Everyone's got a price. For enough $$$ there's always a chance.😆

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'4 and my ex-girlfriend is 5'8. She cheated on me.

So you tell me.

[Suvorov]

Well i like to hear that you dated her it answers my question since its clearly possible. Im sorry for that but i doubt IT was becouse of height.

[Opinion Owner]

No it's not for height.

[itsannalee]

Yes, my dad is short and mom tall.

[Suvorov]

What IS their height difference?

[saraupstairs]

Find a girl 5' 3".

[Agape93]

Yeah?

[LiamJHayden]

Tell them you like to work without a net.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Only if you're extremely wealthy.

[Anonymous]

Stop being insecure