How do you turn that desperate switch off?

[scott04sa22]

Being desperate is a huge turn-off for everybody, and people can smell your desperate vibes like over 2000 miles away!

[ohsheeT]

You never turn it on .
There's no reason to even be that way or act that way it's a moment of time where you need to take that time and find yourself because something is wrong in your life and you need to correct that you need to fix it first then when you are ready actually ready you can step out into the world with a smile on your face and happiness in your heart confidence in your body soul and mind spirit and women can see that in your eyes and then that's when things happen

He comes from within and the switch is within and it shows through your eyes your tone of voice your body language what you say so there's more than one switch just don't even turn on the main breaker and understand why you're in the place that you are before you just turn on that switch before you're ready

[Zack-Bann]

Desperation stems from ego and entitlement


That underlying conviction that you’re somehow owed love and affection and anyone you meet could at least make an effort to give it to you


When they don’t you feel down


Turning it off comes down to letting go of all expectations and dependence on outcome


Going about your day as though you’re ok with what comes and what does it and you’re already satisfied with who you are as a person


With that you can exhume confidence when speaking to people and whenever you flirt with someone you will care far less about what you’re saying which will make what you say so much more powerful and likely to get you results


It’s not easy.


But it’s worth it

[ProbablyClueless]

I've always just been able to think about and worry about other things.

[WhitneySnow]

Confidence

[Anonymous]

Stop caring.