Too boyish a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I have recently realised how different I am from all my girlfriends and basically all girls I know. I really like sports (preferably martial arts- thai boxing ), videogames, sci-fi, fantasy, triller movies/books. I dont wear a lot of make up cos I think it makes all girls look fake, no nail polish and I wear constantly jeans and trainers, hate pink and all girly things. I am as well not very emotional and I rarely cry ( definitely not in front of other people including my family / closest friends). Even my best friend told me that I have no emotions (which is not true, I just hide them). The only think which doesn't make me a total tomboy is my look and the fact that I'very been a model for a while. Considering what I have written above, would you say that I am too big tomboy and it may be a turn off for guys? I really worry that I am not girly enough and it may put off guys.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's a turn off and I know it from my own judgement plus that of my guy friends. But I know that many guys (myself included) love tender hearted and (at least slightly) submissive women and can overlook being tomboyish. Personally I'm okay with tomboys as long as they are not aggressive in real life (love of sports and stuff is not necessarily aggressive) with people. Nothing and I mean NOTHING turns off a man more that the red flag for a potential 'bitch'. Some tomboys are just darlings. They may not act girly but they sure can have a sweet heart.
Hope this helps and hope you find a great guy someday :) !

[Thandz01]

Truth is too some guys you may be too masculine for them cause penis doesn't go with pens but you just need to find the right guy that you can enjoy your interests with be patient.. VERY patient lol my ex was Tom boyish and we were on & off for 7 years. We still talk but secretly I want a girly girl who will wear dresses and hills sometimes and I do not like girls who wear a lot of make-up cause it gets on me every time lol

[erandal]

I was a lot like that when I was younger and I never had any problems getting what I desired. Most men who are attracted to make-up, push up bra's and short dresses before personality and who you really are inside are the ones you want to put off anyway.

[Reaperbot666]

• some guys don't mind a girl being more of a tomboy or acting more like a boy.
• however it is nice if she can still embrace her more feminine side. while reminding her partner that deep down she is still a girl once in a while.
• but that does not mean she has to like wearing makeup, jewelry, dresses, skirts all the time. or like the colors pink, purple or yellow.
• many girls prefer a girl to be more natural looking instead of fake looking.
• more about being positive, supportive, caring, encouraging, kind, truthful, honest, loving, respectful and loyal.
• many girls these days like getting dirty, videogames, scf-fi, movies, books, sports, etc.
• wearing jeans, pants or shorts is fine if she wears clothes. that flatter her body well without it being overly reveling.
• plus being overly emotional can be a drag at times.
• at the end of the day most straight guys just want to be reminded. that their partner is still a girl underneath her boyish look. but how she goes about proving that to him is her choice.
• otherwise he might feel like he is dating a guy and just leave for a different girl.

[Anonymous]

Not at all, I truthfully prefer more boyish girls. I sometimes think a lot of girls have become too girly in modern times, and I think that's a turn off. How you have described yourself I think is an ideal combination, plus its good to be different. Don't change who you are because you are afraid of how others perceive you, stand tall and be proud of who you are :)

[Tromboner98]

Uhh no, absolutely not. Do you actually participate in any of those sports? Or do you just watch them? As long as you're not super obnoxious and mean, you sound awesome.

[SunDevil11]

You are just fine! Some guys will absolutely love that and others will not. You have to find the ones that do! Being a tomboy is nothing to worry about :)

[Jon_Gre_g]

You actually sound pretty cool to me. Martial arts turn on. Sci-fi turn on. Videogames turn on. Rarely cry turn on. You sound more swag than most of the guys here : D

[Anonymous]

Being boyish at all is a massive turn off!

Why do I want a boy? I want a fucking woman, not a boy or a woman trying to act like a guy.

Do you want a man who walks around acting and dressing like a little girl? Yeah, thought not.

[notenough]

be a women act like a women
boyish is stupid

you can like martial arts and video games and sci fi that's okay but be a women
don't try and act like a man

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I love boyish girls. <3

[goretcki]

No, you sound awesome

[Bosnamam]

Too boyish, yes.

[Yanoa_Yanza]

No I like tomboys

[hotstuffSRD]

Guys like it 💁

[Anonymous]

no it's fine