Do you guys think my boyish personality is a turnoff?

[Anonymous]

well I'm not really a tomboy and I don't dress like one. But I'm not really into VERY short skirts and heels but I do wear dresses. I love cars, sports, skateboards and video games. I don't wear make up because it's not comfortable. I've got good grades and everyone say I'm pretty and I play different instruments. I can be shy sometimes but we can be friends in just a minute. I really hate sluts and whores but I do love to play jokes around my friends. Is my boyish personality a real turnoff?

[stubbsy]

No not at all, you sound genuine, something that's often misplaced when guys or girls go for dates, but for you, you sound as if you know what you like, and is happy to make an rffort to get it, so no, I wouldn't say you would be a turn off, I reckon you have a lot to offer the right guy, and more than just one as well, many guys would want the talent you offer,x

[InAmberClad117]

Not at all? I'd actually say just the opposite, but that's because I'm not looking for a one-night or just a sex-buddy. I want a real relationship, which most guys seem to be missing. =j it just means you're able to be true to yourself and need to learn to understand that you make friends first, then find the one you love. =)

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy of course. Be yourself and someone will come along who likes you for you... you can't rush the good stuff!

[AnonymousGlRL]

No I think that a lot of guys would find this kind of girl attractive.

[skyb0und]

Honestly, it will vary from person to person. A lot of guys like this type of girl, but then again, I've met some guys who are turned off by any girl who is not ultra-feminine. Find a guy who likes you for the real you (as cheesy as that is), because you will be unhappy in a relationship with someone who is constantly trying to change you.

[DanteSparda]

I have a friend just like you... I'm really attracted to her but two things that prevent me from dating her are - she has wayy too many guy friends and she's very manipulative :(

[evenlift]

As long as you don't have masculine looks or a masculine personality, no problem. I think you're confusing personality with pastimes. Shyness is feminine not masculine. You sound OK to me.

[Anonymous]

I don't find anything that you've said to be a turn off. In fact, I like most of it and am ambivalent with others. You sound like a catch to me.

[Anonymous]

nothing you described is a turn off.

if the unspoken issue here is trying to get a guy though, I'd say get a makeover and try to make yourself look more pretty.

[booyah]

more of a turn on than turn off (in my opinion)

[Lj237]

Sound like a fun person to me

[Mjeremy111]

I'm not