When i graduated i really put an effort to chnage my style that could attract guys and tried to be friendly with them eventhough im a little bit shy around guys. But the moment i will tell them Im nbsb, they will luagh it out or won't believe me. Some end up only on crush stage while others end up just friends because they think my personality as what they called 'one of the guys personality'. Maybe because im sort of boyish type, athletic and adventurous gal. Im not that super outgoing person, that you can see me eat, watch movie or shop by myself sometimes.. That makes my friends think that i look snobbish when im having my me time.
It is not a problem at all. You just have other interests and boys are not on the top priority in your priority list.
Actually, you are pretty lucky because you did not have to deal with all the issues that others have when having a boyfriend. You were spared from disappointments, disillusions, cheating, red flags, toxicity and the likes.
Concentrate on what you like to do and don't go out of your way to try to find a boyfriend at all costs. You will make wrong decisions if you do and they will impact not only on your mental state but also on the way you see men in general.
What you could do is to join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet people that share the same interests. Who knows, perhaps you can meet this person that can make a difference in your life. Good luck.
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Sometimes you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations in order to meet someone.
You seem like a lovely lady. Perhaps it's you fate to be solo till you find rhe right one (maybe me jk)
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