Almost 24 and single. Should I be worried?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Almost 24 and single. Should I be worried?

The simple answer is that at 24 no you should not be worried, its 100% normal and very common.

With that said, it becomes concerning when it starts to generate this level of anxiety, self doubt and insecurity. If you do not reign this type of thing in it will eat at you and burrow itself into your brain like a worm, and plant these little eggs that will hatch like maggots. Then you will start questioning everything about yourself, you're too fat, too ugly, too thin, or your are not sexy enough... that is how anxiety feeds insecurities and how insecurities manifest and multiple. If this happens then yeah, you're in serious trouble... good news is that you are aware of it and ahead of the game.

This will lead to you putting too much pressure on yourself, causing you to put too much demand on potential relationships or on yourself within any given relationships, and so on, and so on, until it becomes its own self-defeating circle.

So again I say, take a step back, take a deep breath... there is nothing wrong with you, its 100 normal and it is very common. Do not fixate on these things it will be fine.. stay confident and go forth and do great things.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

What are your life goals?

What is your priority in life?

Having some busy, successful career and being a business leader or politician?

Is it having a family and marriage?

If you don't care about family and marriage and kids then you have no time constraints. Who cares if or when you date.

If you want to get married and have kids... you kind to need to get moving. You need to be dating and lining up a mate. You are at the prime of life now for having healthy kids and being fertile. Eggs get old and pregnancies get harder and have more complications in your 30s.

acooke-13 · Accepted Answer

Girl no! Don't be worried, I've been in and out of relationships and only just got into a new one when I was 24. So many of my friends are still single and they're 30! Don't stress, you've got so much time :)

Seriouslyitsnotjayy · Accepted Answer

There’s nothing wrong with this  you are great and you’re going to find an even greater person. keep your eyes open for “mr right “ luv yah!!

HaveNoName · Answer

OMG the pressures of modern fucked up soiciety.

For God's sake... Having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not the primary objective of life. There are better and more useful objectves that take you towards a mich more successful life.

As for a significant other, if that is written in your destiny, it will happen, sooner or later.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. If you’re not looking to get married for have kids I think you’ll be ok. If you’re looking to get married and have kids then you may be pressed for time. I’m assuming if you got married, you’d want to meet someone, maybe date for a couple years then get married. Which would take you to about the age of 26. Then I’d think you would like to enjoy the married life for a year or two before having kids, so let’s say about 27-28 having kids at that age. You may be ok. But what about a career? You planning on having a career cause that could put kids on hold. There’s a lot to consider.

hahahmm · Answer

A lot of women 30+ are worried. So it depends on what you plan on doing between now and then, I guess.

Shamalien · Answer

Stop hooking up. You need to make room in your life if you want a proper relationship. Be willing to be alone forever.

Surely · Answer

You mentioned that you have some very desirable traits. Any good man would be thankful to meet you.
Don’t worry about your age. You still have time to have children. If that is on your mind.
Just be your kind loving self!

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Of course not. It's different for everyone. However if you want to attract men. Yiu need to feel attractive yourself. Smile more. Feel more positive about life. Actually have fun in your life. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and they will notice you far more

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nah. Just make sure that you're doing the self work you need to to be emotionally healthy for dating later.

Staximus · Answer

What are you even worried about? Winning the "who can have a baby first" competition with your friends? It's not 1955 anymore where everybody is married with kids by 25

Quidthonian · Answer

Nope, absolutely nope. Every person in the world is different. Every person has different circumstances. Every person has their own personality, and "schedule".

SaraSmith24 · Answer

Don't worry until age 30 at this year you should fix something

SnowedIn · Answer

Not a bit. You be you and the right person will come along.

Sour-rose · Answer

Nah. You should only worry if you get comfortable with being alone and not having any fun with no one.

JPresidente · Answer

If you have decent looks and good personality, you have nothing to worry about.

Fireguy17 · Answer

No biggie. My niece was in her 30s when she got married and had a kid. Better to wait for the right on than go get married to be married and not have it work out.

dustybiker · Answer

Better to be single and happy than be in a bad relationship.

zagor · Answer

No, not at all. People who rush into those things usually end up regretting it.

Havthrills · Answer

Nothing wrong with it. You just haven't found the right man/woman (whatever your interests). I bet you're beautiful and from your posts, sound like a wonderful fun woman.

bigpauly · Answer

No, you’re young and have plenty of time to find a relationship if that’s what you want.

Taylorsheila19 · Answer

No I think being single gives you flexibility to do what you want most guys cheat even if they are married

Paul09 · Answer

I just turned 41 and single. Not easy to find the right one. But who cares, as long as you enjoy life. The rest is all up to you.

RavVid · Answer

No. Better to not choose just anyone so as not to be single.

jamesgoldman · Answer

No, 24 is no age  I'm 24 and single and don't worry a bit about it

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yes, because if too wait too long, anyone you are compatible with in your age group will be taken.

Kabluie · Answer

Nah, there is always someone new around the corner.

Plane_Jane · Answer

I wouldn’t worry about it just yet. I’ve had family stay single into their 40s

kareka · Answer

No its normal.. The right person will come in the right time

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

its no problem at all, I'm 26 and still single by the way

BJP21 · Answer

Im 40 and still single. I wouldn't worry until about age 30. Take your time.

TacticalLizard · Answer

Yeah The World is Ending because you are still single I think I’m having a heart attack since your still single

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t think so you’re young yet you have to find the right guy

TonightYouu · Answer

Yes you should be worried and take dating more seriously

OddBeMe · Answer

Single, no. Never having a physical or romantic relationship, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 24 hrs. Try being single for 40+ years. Then come back on talk.

Alexxess · Answer

Nothing to worry about. I know girls who are older than you and single.  by the way can you follow me back so we can talk?

Guardian45 · Answer

Congratulations! LOTS of guys want a virgin!

BLP11520 · Answer

No, 24 is very young, trust me darling

Dreamclouds · Answer

Aww don't you worry there is nothing wrong about that it can happen to anyone

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Be social, try to contact guys personally, share emails with others

Celticwolf78 · Answer

U need someone who understands ur anxiety and can help u with anything

NathanDavis · Answer

worried about what?

Adogdog · Answer

I'm 26 and single haha

gerald5466 · Answer

no not at all you'll find someone

Anonymous · Answer

Can I date you?

Xtendable · Answer

Nah, you’re still young

ConspiracyTheorist · Answer

I'm 40 and single and I am worried

Stevefiveo · Answer

Relax, it will happen.

Wise4myage · Answer

Why? You are in your prime.

CubaPirate · Answer

Not in the slightest

Chthou95 · Answer

You're a woman. No you shouldn't

jimmy2 · Answer

Not at all dear you are still very young

eagle1951 · Answer

no way

sheikalana · Answer

Ñot at all.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol no ur 24

maximumpower · Answer

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TrillXHippy · Answer

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