Why is it so hard to approach a girl in public?

[Chillguy53]

The fear of approaching girls is causing me to be a virgin. I am so scared of talking to girls.

i wanna approach a girl but its so hard, it feels impossible.

I dont even look like your stereotypical virgin. I groom myself good and i have great hygiene, i am 5’7 but im not overweight.

[MysticDevice]

Best thing I can tell you is don't even THINK about dating. Just start with being friends. The most successful relationships I've had started as nothing more than friends.

Cause when you're just friends you don't pretend to be someone you're not. You're at more most authentic. And THAT's when girls will start to like you.

The feelings that develop slowly over time through friendships are the most potent.

My only long term relationship started that way. We'd known eachother for years before getting together. Sometimes it happens faster, sometimes slower, but thats just my experience on the matter.

[Anonymous]

You're worrying to much about what she'll think. You need to get to a point where you simply do not care what she thinks. What she thinks of you has no bearing on who you actually are.

[Nikki1989]

I don't know what your problem is here. Men I know seem to have no issues with approaching.

[mandyfire98]

Are you worried your personality might get you rejected and keep you alone?

[Anonymous]

I don't like to be approached by people I don't know.

[Chthou95]

If you're attractive enough to women, they'll give you leeway for trial & error

[Abbycado]

Same height as me. We’d be good.