Is there any way to make things right with people who hate me?

[Anonymous]

Its not about ass kissing or people pleasing. But I find that they don't really like me and I feel it's something I did.

My intentions are always good but im not gonna lie im a fuck up. I get so nervous I mean to turn right but I'll go left. It's a big misunderstanding and I wish they would know this

[Anonymous]

Life has taught me that with some people all you can do is make the effort. It's not always feasible to make things right with someone. Sometimes you have to just be good with the fact that you tried. So I guess what I'm saying is as long as you can honestly say you made every effort.

[Asker]

Thanks man i appreciate it

[StevenMcGarrett]

If you really care about them, ask to talk to them and explain it to them. If you are afraid of fucking it you maybe write a letter or practice what you want to say first. Good luck. I would do this on a one on one basis, not everyone at once.

[SleepingHazard]

If they hate you, at least they care. Give them time and they might come around, or you ask to talk and clarify. You might just want to ask?

[mandyfire98]

It ultimately depends on what you said or did. All you can do is try to make ammends for it and hope they forgive you.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

As much as we might want to, we can’t control other people’s opinions of us no matter how hard we tailor ourselves to that person. If they don’t like you, there’s very little you can do to change that opinion and trying to force it is only going to make it worse. Not everyone is going to like you, and while I know this is easier to accept in theory than in practice it’s something you need to learn to let go of.

[Abbycado]

Give em space and time. Depends on how bad of a fuckup it is too. Some things are pretty hard to come back from.

[Nikki1989]

Try to understand why these people don't like you. Were there specific actions or behaviours on your part that contributed to this?

[ohsheeT]

All you can do is ask