If a girl says a guy triggers her what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

So back story she had childhood trauma and a previous abusive relationship

[Anonymous]

It depends on the context.

[Asker]

So she would have childlike meltdowns saying I triggered her

[Anonymous]

She has psychological issues.

[Asker]

Ok so would it be me or her not addressing the actual issue and I’m just being scapegoated

[Opinion Owner]

You can't fix her. Only she can do that.

[Asker]

So I’m not trying to fix it I was just asking is her saying I’m triggering her a way of scapegoating me for her issues

[Opinion Owner]

Kind of, yeah. The question is whether she's trying to heal from this or making it her excuse. And the tell of that is how she treats you. You're not responsible for her trauma.

[Asker]

Yeah I went into this relationship so happy that I finally found a girlfriend being that in autistic and I left it being scapegoated for her traumas and ultimately hating myself and overall just a poor self image of myself

[Asker]

I was extremely wore down by the end of the relationship