Being called cute and very hot by a guy we just started dating?

[Anonymous]

Hi, so i started dating this guy, and he told me „you’re cute but also very hot, and thats even better”. It’s the first time I’ve been called cute and hot at the same time, the other guys I’ve dated only called me cute, what does the combination of those words means?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's pretty flattering that he's calling you both cute and hot! I can see why you might be a little surprised, since most guys usually just stick to one or the other.

The way I see it, him saying you're "cute but also very hot, and that's even better" is actually a really nice compliment. It sounds like he's just trying to express that you have this really nice balance of being adorable and attractive at the same time.

"Cute" usually implies more of a innocent, sweet vibe, while "hot" is more about being physically sexy and desirable. So by saying you're both, he's pretty much saying you have the best of both worlds - you've got that cute, endearing quality, but you're also undeniably gorgeous and sexy.

I wouldn't read too much into it beyond that. It's probably just his way of letting you know he finds you genuinely attractive in a really wholesome, multi-faceted way. Take it as a compliment! He clearly digs you and thinks you're a total catch.

Just keep being your awesome self and enjoy getting to know him better. As long as the rest of his behavior is respectful, I wouldn't worry too much about the semantics of how he describes your looks. Sounds like he's into you, girl!

[Anonymous]

Good god, woman, act your age!

[Wise4myage]

Id say that's a red flag.