How to not have an attitude around a guy I really like?

[Anonymous]

I’m not the most confident person but I’ve been attracted to him for a couple years and I don’t see him often… I won’t lie.. don’t say this about many men but he’s my dream guy. There’s so many things about him that I observe and like besides the fact that he’s handsome… he’s disciplined, he plays multiple instruments, he’s respectful.. he joined the Navy…

but I hate that he doesn’t seem to notice me.. I know he was talking to someone way older than him and he was into her… and it seems that I just don’t appeal to him or he doesn’t like me enough to do anything or be around me… I think my mother is also attracted to him and Vic versa …..

I get an attitude and it really has to do with me not feeling good enough

[Anonymous]

Well, you need to figure out how to not have an attitude around him because that will ruin any chances you have.

Keep in mind that when a woman shows interest in a guy who otherwise hasn't noticed her, it can pique his interest. Not always, but often. Don't assume you shouldn't show interest just because he hasn't noticed you yet. Gather some courage and shoot your shot, or you'll always wonder what might have been.

[Asker]

Idk… my mother says he brings women to church sometimes so I doubt he had to say anything

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 Sounds like it doesn't really matter. Have an attitude, don't have an attitude. The results most likely going to be the same.👍

[Asker]

I mean I don’t see him often but I do feel sad behind closed doors but you’re right

[Anonymous]

Try talking with him. Flirt a little.

[Asker]

Why do that if he’s not attracted to me?

[Opinion Owner]

He might just not have noticed you yet. Try flirting a little. See how he responds.

[Asker]

The only thing he did was glance back at me before leaving out after we were introduced after a year or so…

[Opinion Owner]

He hasn’t noticed you yet. Try talking to him a little and see how he responds.

[Asker]

I understand. But he has so many women attracted and interested in him already

[Opinion Owner]

Can’t hurt to try

[Asker]

What’s the point? Especially if he already doesn't know I exist….

[Opinion Owner]

Because he won’t know you exist until you talk to him! If you talk to him there’s at least a chance he’ll really like you.