I have had this happen to me a lot at school. I do a guy a favor or treat them nicely just the way I treat everyone else and next thing you know they mistake my kindness start hitting on me or telling there friends they like me. It become so annoy know because there is this one guy who has liked me for fives years and won't take the hint that I just see him as a friend. I have tried ignoring him by not speaking to him or going out of my to avoid him but it did not work. I don't have to heart to tell them I just want to be friends, But I don't know anyway to make them stop liking me. PLEASE help!
Let me know when you figure it out smh. I'm so tired of loosing friendships to guys catching feelings. Like even why you outright reject them and they say they can handle "just friends" they don't mean it. It's so frustrating.
But for real, say it to the guy. He should at least back off, even if you guys don't end up actually being friends.
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Yeah so you are going to have to just say it. You have tried other things I would have suggested. Would you rather just be honest and open with him about it or try something like being mean? The second option doesn't sound that appealing does it? You are just going to have to come out with it and say you aren't interested in anything more than friends with anyone right now. Don't target it just at him but in general. It should make it a bit easier to stomach.
tell the truth that you don't like him... no need to say why... tell that's it as I don't like you...
if he more into you... he come again and again... so tell him hard and harsh... then he will understand and try to move from you...
don't worry... he will be okay... but tell it in respectful way
You can't make a guy stop liking you. They think you're pretty but should have matters in being a gentleman to the lovely lady like yourself 😉
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yeah it sucks,, just politely tell thwm you’re not interested
You have to have the heart to tell him
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