Here are several things:
1. Moving away makes a girl disappear from my mind.
2. She finds another guy
3. After getting to know her after a while and realizing we have way too many differences
4. After realizing that her career choice is to travel all over the world where as I will not.
5. Learning something about her that is a deal breaker such as drugs
6. Learning that our paths in life after high school or college probably won't cross.
7. I could meet another girl and she would cause me to forget about any other girls.
More often it is because there's another girl in the picture. I tend not to spend too much time chasing after girls that don't show some interest back in return. There's few things more pathetic and needy than a man who chases a girl who doesn't chase back. If I learned something about her past that reflected poorly on her judgement or personality, that would turn me off. Basically, the number one reason why I'd move on is if she didn't show much interest in me in the first place. She has to be in the game so to speak, if not, I'm going to find a girl who is.
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A crush is like a flower - it'll wilt and die off sooner or later if you don't water it.
So a passage of time with no hope in sight will definitely "cure" a crush (as would meeting another girl, unless the guy is a player that is), where's reciprocity lets it grow into something more.
There's a moment when the guy who used to pursue you without hope suddenly moves on, where you feel you are missing something even if you'd never acknowledged his existence before. The "loss", however superficial when contemplated logically, kind of yanks your chain a little bit. At this moment some girls would take steps to get back to the way it was - but you should be very careful not to get manipulated into sleeping with a guy who in fact no longer likes you.
- her not showing or displaying any interest back at me (if she doesn't like me back, then I don't like her)
- her entering in a relationship
- no time spent trying to get to know each other
- realizing that we aren't compatible
- myself focusing on a different that I feel is much better for me
Seeing her make out with someone I hate. That'll leave a scar. I did something similar to a girl I friend zoned once. Feel guilty, but it stopped her from getting her hopes up. At the same time, she stopped talking to me forever.
Some want to stop the pain, so they convince themselves what they felt was not real and powered by the imagination instead.
Definitely habits and certain physical traits. Mainly:
- Hygiene issues, bodily and oral.
- Discovering bodily hair where I personally don't like.
- Habits that are less feminine and more manly.
- Not sharing any common interests about having fun in life.
- and someone who think only she pr her opinion is always right.
I would say its just the undeniable realization that things will never be. Hit that point with somebody relatively recently and don't feel the same way anymore. Not just that, but clearly there's a level of rejection that comes with a long time crush and once you don't feel that way anymore it's hard to go back.
If I knew she liked another person, that would just make me try to pursue another girl. Also, if she turned into a bitch or developed a bitchy/snobby attitude.
Rejection, other intrests, and realizing the girl isn't for me. Or knowing that after 6 months of staring, nothing will happen.
if she doesn't give me space and time to myself , I don't ask for much but I need some hours each day for myself
i think when they realize she doesn't like them back, that's how I am with guys
one of the reasons would be finding out that "she" was actually born as "he." just and example.
realizing that you just don't click, that your personalities aren't compatible. that makes me lose interest in a heart beat.
If she was cheating. If I had to work overseas. If we could not see each other often. If I found another woman that was 'better' in my eyes.
if she plays hard to get.
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