A guy likes a girl for 5 months straight. He pursues her and is around her all the time and the two become good friends. He wants to be in a serious relationship with her. But she doesn't feel the same way.
Well, one day he decides to stop liking her. But that's the thing, how can he DECIDE that? She has done a few things to make him angry and discouraged, but they have gotten over it and he was always seriously attracted to her..up until that 5 month point.
But since when can you "just stop" liking someone? Don't the feelings remain, maybe buried, maybe denied to the point where he's convinced himself he really doesn't want her, but STILL there. Maybe it takes a certain event to resurface the feelings. Or maybe one night he does a lot of thinking and realizes he hasn't completely stopped liking her.
Is it possible to re-ignite the flames of the first 5 months?
I know I've never been able to JUST STOP liking someone. All the men of my past, still have a little, tiny flame in my heart! Can't be just me, right?
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To me I think that if a man just stops liking you that this means that he must not have liked you that much in the beginning. Sure he seemed to have like you alot. He may have started coming over to see you alot, kissed you and told you how much he loved you and was the sweetest to you, but now he seems to have changed and your thoughts are "why? Is it me?" Most likely its not you it's him. He doesn't know what he wants. You know you want him, you know you love him and don't want him to leave, but he feels it's best that he's not with you. One reason could be that he wants to see other people. He may think sticking to one person leads to something huge down the line like marriage. Maybe it's just that he feels he needs a break for a while to test the waters to see what's out there. To see if there is someone better out there then who he's with now. Most guys have two things on there mind and that's girls and money. When they think of girls they think of who they can get with, who's prettier then this one, who wants me more than this one, who has a fatter pussy? I'm sorry honey but if he does not like you anymore he never really did.