Has this happened to anyone else?
Have you started liking someone after you find out they like you?
Has this happened to anyone else?
No, that has never happened to me. For me when i found out i felt turned off because i was not at all interested in that person and only saw them as a friend. so i kept a bit of distance because i didn't wanna give them the wrong impression or lead them on.
However, I remember when i was in elementary school, the boy i had a crush on found out i liked him because one of my friends told him. He started to treat me nicely afterwards and even gave me a heart shaped lolipop on valentines day.
so sometimes it works, when your crush finds out you like them they can start to like you back too.
Sort of, similar to the way you described it.
One of my guy friends liked me after knowing me for only about a month, which made me flustered and unintentionally friendzone him. Then almost 2 years later we talked again and I thought he liked me again but now I don't know. Whenever my friend would ask me if I liked him, at first I would just deny it, but now I don't know. Maybe I do like him.
Oh weird because this guy stopped talking to me for a year because I think I unintentionally friend zoned him too but he started talking to me again just recently so I don’t know either lol
My best example is this. I worked for a good looking older woman at Macy's and buddy also had gotten me the job there. He said have you ever seen her daughter? Dude she is so hot I can't believe it. So I asked her mom if I could see a picture and her mom said better yet you should meet her. She came to meet me and we've been together ever since. She told me recently she came down to see my friend who she had seen many times but saw me and couldn't take her eyes off me. Lol
Yes. I knew her for 14 years. I've always liked her but thought she was far too attractive to be interested in me. She asked me out last September (she's like that 😊 ) and we've been going out ever since. I had been married for 6 years to someone very abusive who told me no one would ever be interested in me. One of the things she did was she told me over and over she was my only hope for a relationship. I guess she was very wrong. She's alone now. Karma does exist.
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Yes I have. In the past - I could not become interested in a guy unless he initiated the friendship or relationship or acquaintanceship.
yeah this happened to me two years ago.
i guess my English teacher noticed that this guy in our class was into me because when we had assigned seats, he put us together.
i didn't know him, so i didn't really think of anything. i soon quickly noticed he acted really funny around me and would always focus on me whenever we had group discussions in the class.
we never got together because i was too naive/shy to do anything, but i higghhhllyy suspected he liked me and after awhile i became attracted to him because he found an interest and me and i started finding things about his personality and physical appearance that i found attractive.
Kind of a misunderstanding, really, but he's my current situation: When I met my crush I didn't think anything special of him, but then I said something that made me seem interested. So he started to give me a lot of his attention, along with compliments. Somehow, his interest in me triggered a reaction and I end up having feelings for him...
Yeah but for me I didn't like him after I knew he liked me tho... he just started talking to me and at that moment I knew there was something with him since I never spoke with my classmates I started asking myself why did he talk to me? And after that I started talking to him tbh since I moved in to that new school I never noticed him but I heard people mentioning his name and now well.. I'm having a massive crush on him and the other way round but nothing more 😊😊
Yes...
Not quite in the way you describe
More like I never considered the person in that context before for no particular reason
Someone I knew to me out of the blue expressed an interest
There might been hints an clues before but I would have missed them
It had just never occurred to me to think of this person in that way before
I read somewhere that if a person says they like you. Even if it's small but that tiny part of you will reciprocate the feelings. Other than that, taking it further is up to you.
Well personally I don't know.
Relationships only happen for me when I find out someone likes me and then I develop feelings for them. It never works out when I develop feelings for someone first which is really weird, so no
Not like him back too, but i do notice him a lot more. If and only if, we get to know each other more and i like the way he is inside, then that will be the time i will like him back too
Only once in my life, though I didn’t truly like him.
Why?
I’ve done that so many times too
I thought that was what was happening, but it turned out to be that I was so desperate for that kind of attention that I was willing to be involved with anyone who felt that way about me. As such, I put myself in relationships with people I didn't actually like that way simply because they were the only people who would ever give me that kind of attention
Yessss, I ended up dating a guy and I started to like him in the same way you described. Only difference is that I lost interest two weeks into the relationship. :/
In high school and college it was one of my most fruitful way to get into relationships. I loved being liked and it made them prettier and sexier instantly. oh yeah, some great romances came from that.
Yep! I think once you know that someone likes you then you want more of their attention. In this process, you begin to like them because you know that they like you.
Yeah, it was like that with me for my ex girlfriend. I found out she liked me and she was nice and I knew she was too shy to ever ask me out so I asked her out and we became pretty close after that... Until we broke up and she moved away without telling me or giving me any explanation...
Reciprication is something most people crave. So when you discover spmeone likes you the ego boost can transform into feelings as that person is a safe bet.
It is so interesting how many girls have said yes. Wow, that was a little bit surprising. I mean it wouldn't happen to any guy, but it happens.
there was this one coworker I found cute. I haven't thought about dating him but then he asked me out so I gave it a try and now I'm in love with him
Yes, when I was in 9th Grade. There was a boy name Frinz Gerald, I didn't know I am slowly falling inlove with him after he said that he liked me. I always think about him. I mean He's always in my thoughts. Then I realized that he is cute. Haha. I ignore him before. LOL
Happened to me, girl i worked with had a crush on me for weeks before i found out about it, after that i thought she was the most beautiful girl on earth.
We were together for a little while, then she dumped me.😟
I still miss her sometimes.
Yes... absolutely and it workec out ok. I enjoyed it quite a bit!
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