What are the pros and cons of dating a woman who talks down to people?

[Anonymous]

I've recently noticed my girlfriend tends to talk down to other women, we haven't been dating long.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah see that's just a big red flag for me I probably wouldn't be dating her very long if I was you but I'm not you so you have to look at it like this however she treats her friends are people that she's talking to when it comes down to it if she gets angry she's going to treat you the exact same way the 10 times worse

[Asker]

She gets along with her friends, they're like her.

[ohsheeT]

Well if she talks down to them and you can see that and you can feel that then I would think her friends would do the same thing and just they probably internalize it

. There are bigger people out there in the world says oh well it is what it is I'm not going to let it bother me and that's cool that's a good thing I'm just saying that if you guys were to get together and if something was to happen you would probably just let you have it

I tell this to girls all the time the way your boyfriend treats all his friends and the way that he talks crap about them and is just straight up rude if anything is to happen between you two he's going to be just like that to you but 10 times worse and that's just part of life I mean I've seen it happen over and over and over again

[ohsheeT]

No I'm not saying that I'm right either just because I think something does not mean that I'm right that's only for you to decide with her is between you two so just pay attention is all I'm saying and watch and see how she interacts with everybody and how she if she talks badly about people when they're not around that's all I'm saying you guys might just end up who knows maybe she had a bad day

[Anonymous]

depends. if she talks down to feminists, no problem. if she talks down to foreign or traditional women, nah hard pass

[red-lipstick-girl]

I wouldn't date a person with a disgusting character. I was previously in love with an egoistic person, but it was a mistake.

[HelpfulWoman]

so she's a shitty person. no pros long term with that

[Ms_Facesitter]

I only heard cons.