Am I paranoid or have the same thing happened to you?

[Anonymous]

So everytime I become single again, all the ex dates or ex boyfriends suddenly start to write to me and call me. FYI I've blocked all of them but they still find me in other ways when I am single. Is there like a signal that tells them I am single? Or do they stalk me on social media to find out if I am single?

It's very weird.

[ohsheeT]

That is very strange very weird but they must be on your social media or something in order for that to happen and you must be putting it out there on social media

We can always do an experiment let's pretend like we're dating and give it a couple days you can break out and do what you usually do or wait wait first you have to give me your social media so I could see that we just broke up too LOL and then that way next time you go out with somebody and you break up with him then I can get a hold of you too and say hey what about me lol it's just an experiment could be worth it though

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂Great! Let's try

[ohsheeT]

Haha really

[ohsheeT]

I will. If you're serious

[Asker]

I was just kidding too

[ohsheeT]

Aww damn it could have been fun. It's okay at first I was I but then when you said okay I said great.. . With big smile I said let's try it

[Asker]

You wanted to test that theory?

[ohsheeT]

Sure why not

[Zack-Bann]

Easy fix: don’t advertise your relationship status online.


Most likely they check your page every now and then everyone does it.


Plus in my case for instance: I had moved on from my ex completely and then my friend calls me one day and says “you won’t believe it, your ex is dating again”


So without asking for it I ended up “keeping tabs” on her


Ill probably hear about it if she’s single again and so will her other ex (she just has 2)

[Asker]

That is logical, but for me I put my social medias on "privat"

[Zack-Bann]

But your exes are getting that info from somewhere…
Unless you used to date CIA agents

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I guess they have fond memories of you.

probably some of them check your social media, and some of them hear through the grapevine that you're single again.

Do they want to date you again, or are they hoping for something short term?

[Asker]

Some be like " I regret letting you go bla bla bla we should try to be together again. I will do my better this time and treat you bette".

And other be like " i keep thinking about you, your body bla bla bla i want You back"

So clearly the second ones just miss sex😅

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Did any of them get a second chance with you?

Are you in college?

[Asker]

In 2021 one got a second chance and we broke up in May 2023

In 2023 another got a second chance and we broke up September 2024.

So I ve only give second chances two times. Never again.

[Asker]

I am in college 😏

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

That kinda makes sense. They're ex's for a reason.

Why are your ex's all so eager to get back with you? Are you that hot?

Can I ask how old you are? Just curious.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Are you really "in demand" at college? Are guys constantly hitting on you?

[Asker]

Ahh no don't missunderstanding, i am pretty average. I just respect people and treat them well as long as they don't go over the like.

Maybe the girls they datet after me did not treat them well.

I don't care anymore

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Are you in a relationship now?

Are yu in the usa? Just curious, that's where I am.

[Asker]

I am not in the USA

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Can I ask what country you're in? Just curious.

[Asker]

Sweden

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Interesting.

Do you like Sweden? Are you from there originally?

[MissTrix]

Totally happens! 😂 Your not crazy! All my exes think I'm single cause I'm not with a man but so thankful they have not realized I'm lesbian yet!

The thirst flood would be awful! It's not love or caring just greed

[Asker]

😂😂😂What a turn of avent , I would like to see their faces when they find out your are lesbian in the future.

[MissTrix]

Yes see Thier faces not them! 😂 Sorry you had a break up you will find someone amazing soon! Here is a hug! Your amazing

[Asker]

Awww thanks you are so sweet🥰🥰🥰

[MissTrix]

Welcomes I'd give you a follow but can't tell who you are!
We need to be kinder to each other

[Asker]

It's alright, I appreciate the kindness tho

[Asker]

You are awesome too 🥰

[Cormac995]

UUUUUHHHH if this is repetitive behavior after you told them to stop it's called stalking and it's not cool.