Have you ever dated a feminine man and what was it like?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy that is just amazing to me but there are little things he does that stands out to me that because they are the most masculine things per se. He’s very sensitive and open about his feelings which I love. Sometimes he sits with him legs close together and he lays on my shoulder sometimes before I can lay in his. He also really really knows how to treat a woman. This isn’t a deal breaker for me, but I wonder if I’m misjudging him. I’m not even the most traditional woman for gender roles. It’s just new to me and I hope he isn't DL with me. If he’s bisexual that’s fine, but I want him to be into me.

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That being said, I think this has the potential to be my best relationship, though it’s not as ideal

[Purpleronnie]

Your view of what feminine is can differ from another. I’m not gonna call a female masculine for not crossing her legs or drinking a pint of beer 🍺 over a pina colada.
To each their own , as long as it works for you and your relationship then it doesn’t matter what anyone says or thinks.
Hell if he wants to dress up as a sexy waitress and serve you dinner then it’s absolutely fine as long as you want that


In the current state of affairs with men wanting to identify as women without the faintest idea of how to define what a woman actually is a man putting his head on your shoulder as a symbol of affection and comfort is frankly arbitrary.

[Asker]

Thank you:) agreed

[artic73]

I think some men can be this way
I know I am with my wife
I’m masculine in the areas I need to be but we sometimes have soft spots wear we want to act certain ways


I lay my head on her during movies more then she usually does mine
She’ll hold me sometimes if I haven’t already done so with her


I keep my legs open sitting down so she can feel open about what she wants to feel sitting next to me


We are dominant 90% of the time but some of us like to be treated softly with tender love and care

[Asker]

That’s really sweet. It’s a new territory but it doesn’t feel wrong. I think this guy may be the same way.

[artic73]

Don’t feel discouraged or uncomfortable
He probably doesn’t notice some things he does is just the way some of us are wired.

I love having my head rubbed
I love have her touch my legs while we are relaxing
I love to bow down to her and do what she wants me to do

It’s perfectly okay and normal
We are just a little feminine in certain situations and aspects

It’s perfectly okay! Enjoy your company even if it’s a little different:)

[Asker]

You just described him to a T! On top of that he’s likes to serve me which I’m used to the other way around. I will enjoy him for sure and will do my best to be good to him too

[artic73]

Haha I’m probably a lot like him then
Enjoy respect him and let him explore his needs with you
And I pray that he is good to you too

[Anonymous]

I have not. I have a friend whose boyfriend is kind of feminine. I've never talked with her about it but it seems to work for them. Not my type though.

[Anonymous]

I met a guy. He is very nice, but he is feminine. I thought he is gay, he likes me and he is straight and just feminine.

[artic73]

And I think it’s okay for some of us to be this way

You are who you are
Embrace it feel it enjoy it

[Asker]

See, that’s what I’m thinking is the case here. He’s attracted to me for sure and treats me right, so I shouldn’t worry so much

[artic73]

More than likely
You probably don’t need to worry just don’t pre judge him for his deferences
We usually will show that side but are sensitive about it

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker yeah he was nice, and submissive. But he just not my type, because i like dominant man.

[artic73]

@Opinion owner
That is understandable

[Opinion Owner]

@artic73 yeah, everyone has their own way. But he was just not my type, tbh I used to be close to him because I thought he was gay. And even told my ex that he is gay (i met him when I wasn’t single).

[artic73]

I get that
Aww that’s unfortunate but I understand nonetheless!

[NicholasRedone]

I'd imagine the woman saw him as "friend zoned* lol but still hung out for the free food lol or a free ride here and there and everywhere

[NicholasRedone]

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