Can a man be truly loved for who he is or does he have to bring stuff to the table?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Well she better love you for just who you are material things don't matter I take that back maybe with some girls I don't know I've never known a girl that wanted extra bonus but I never did have asked either

I don't know I've always been myself and when I get into a relationship what is mine is yours just take care of it put it away do whatever but I'm me and I go out of my way sometimes to not actually be the best me just to find out certain things and I know that's kind of wrong but I mean it doesn't last very long but I mean you know I want to know too but I think if she wants material items involved with 11 you well I don't know what to say I think I would read right through that and say I'm sorry but this is who I am today and I keep one foot going in front of the other then I might be this person tomorrow but I've never ever say that

Because I would feel I wouldn't feel right about the whole thing

[Anonymous]

Very rarely.

A man can. But it takes a woman that truly recognizes who he is and his worth. And those women are in SHORT supply. Most women unfornately find a man they fancy. Take a few words of his. And then create the man they want him to be in thier mind. This is why so many women have so much trouble with men. It's she never even really got to know who he truly was. And this is all assuming he even tells her the truth if she was listening.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Everyone should bring something to the table, man or woman. He doesn't have to be rich, good looking, tall, drive a nice car, or whatever nonsense that most people say it has to be for a non golddigging woman. Both sexes to need to have some appeal though. Something that makes them stand out. A good personality for example. Maybe something like confidence.

I actually have a question up right now asking what people find as a turn on in a potential partner in dating. You'll see in those responses what each sex wants from the other.

[Asker]

Men do need to have something though. Relationships are all about benefiting from something. There's always personel self gain invloved

[NicholasRedone]

I usually bring an open can of Pepsi when I sit down at a table or stand near a table 🥤 enjoying my soda 😁🥤 😋

As I do

[Twalli]

If a man offers nothing else but existing, he won't be loved. If you are in a strong relationship, you probably will be loved for who you are, but that won't get you far when a relationship starts.