Is it wrong to ask for a massage from a girl you're dating, because she's a masseuse?

[Anonymous]

There was an episode of Seinfeld about this. He was dating a masseuse and he's like, why won't you give me a massage, here at home, so I don't have to pay for it. She never gave him a good reason why she wouldn't.

The only reason I can think of is that, a lot of the times, people don't really like to bring work home, if they don't have to. But, I mean, it's just a massage, it's not rocket science.

So what would be the reason she wouldn't give him one.

I like a girl, and she's a masseuse, I've never asked her for one, because of this very episode

[SueShe]

There are several reason that speak against it.

First, as you mention, she would bring work home. If you work 8 hours at a job, you don't really feel like continue your work at home or at somebody else's place and without pay.

Second, you could take advantage of this sports massage for something else and "motivate" or coerce her to do something that is not part of a regular sports massage.

I would never agree to have to do work at somebody's place without being properly compensated and I think you would not want to pay her the regular fee.

[Abbycado]

It isn't wrong, just don't expect it. If she says no then respect that.

[Tmucciolo]

If you occasionally ask for a particular body part to be massaged once in awhile, i don't see anything wrong with that. If your asking for a full body massage 1-2 times a week, i think that would be taking advantage of her. Be respectful of the fact she has been doing massages all day and may not want to come home to your massage request.

[Nikki1989]

That is probably the last thing she wants to do outside work hours.

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out