Help online dating?

[Tabbygirl]

Matched on bumble. Went on a date. Asked for my number and IG handle, gave both. Chat for a bit then haven’t heard back from him going on 3 weeks. He watches my stories and we are still matched on bumble with our chat moving to “older chat”. So connected on multiple platforms just no actual communication happening. I just don’t get it? A man’s perspective would be nice

[incorrected]

Most women chase men with lots of options, and then get confused when those men treat them the way this guy is treating you. You're not going to secure anything long term with the ones you're really attracted to, by and large. That's the same for everyone really. If they're fluid and seem experienced, they've had practice, and you're just more "experience". You have to be willing to build something good inside a long term relationship, but good luck discerning who will blossom into a beautiful flower and who will just be a disappointment unwilling to grow. ChatGPT and a billion questions about how to discern that may be helpful to you.

[Avicenna]

Means he’s talking to lots of other women (or doing more) and has you on the back burner.

[zagor]

If you've met in person and he hasn't done more than that I think "next" is the appropriate response.

[shortster]

Sounds like you are in the friend zone/back up girlfriend.

[iseekpinetrees]

He lost interest

[In_Trance]

Move on