How do you juggle multiple people at once?

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I just can't do it. I zone in on one person and it's pretty much all I see.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

By dating and weighing your options , by not rushing into anything with anyone , by sticking to your own preferences of what you want and don’t want with someone. By being honest about not wanting a commitment right away. Giving them a choice on whether they want to continue dating you or not , When you are honest you aren’t hurting anyone , , if someone does get hurt? Then that’s their problem not yours’ because you were honest with them. I dated 6 girls’ at one time before because I wasn’t looking to rush into a relationship with anyone after my ex destroyed my heart. I eventually started meeting girls’ that I connected with , that I was honest with , giving them a choice on whether they wanted to continue seeing me or not. These 6 girls’ chose to continue dating me and calling me to see me , it eventually turned to a mess by juggling these girls’ so I had a change of heart and ended up choosing one and told the other girls’ the truth that I have fallen for someone else , and they all understood , I did feel bad , but at the same time I didn’t , because I was honest with all of them. So the key to dating multiple people is being honest. By giving them a choice on whether they want to continue dating or seeing you or not. When I am single , I am single , I do whatever I want to do pretty much , I am single until my heart belongs to a girl that gives me her heart in return. I am pretty much an open book and choose to be honest with whoever I meet that I am interested in. I don’t blindside anyone that treats me with honesty and respect as well. Just because I meet a beautiful girl it takes more than just looks for her to receive my heart , she has to have a good heart as well for me to even consider giving her mine. I been burned to many times by selfish girls’ to the point I had to become selfish as well when I am single. But once I am not single , she becomes my one and only. It was definitely a learning experience for myself , Nowadays I will only be FWB’s with a girl with some strings attached , meaning we only have sex with each other but we are both open to date other people if we choose to. If one of us ends up in bed with someone else , we end the benefits part between us and just remain friends’ this only works when you meet someone that is honest and open with you.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I was never into that. I would just pick a girl who I thought was super pretty. If we hit it off, I would stop looking for someone else and basically date exclusively. It never took more than three dates or so for us to both become exclusive, sexual, and infatuated.
That's what I prefer.
I wasn't constantly looking for something better. And I wasn't trying to add notches to my bedpost. Sex with one special girl several times a day is better than constantly trying to make new conquests.
Plus it means that you don't have to lie to keep your story straight.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Its easy as long as its just getting to know them all and a bit of flirting here and there. But once one or both of us catch feelings then thats when i narrow the options down. I think its okay to juggle multiple as long as they’re aware of eachother and you’re not getting physical with any of em. Save that for when the options are down to 1 guy. I spent last fall getting to know like 5 dudes. I let them eliminate themselves through our major differences and then it was narrowed down to one lucky guy just in time for a winter romance. Hopefully we make it through more than one season

Caroline91 · Accepted Answer

Partly by not letting sex be part of the equation. The emphasis is on enjoying yourselves in other ways and really getting to know each other. As a teen and in college, I went out with as many guys as I wanted to unless, and until, it got narrowed down to a more serious interest in just one. And if it was a mutual interest, then we agreed not to date other people. But, I never tried to hide anything or let someone think they were the only one I was going out with.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, you can if they don't expect full attention or you have good reasons to not be available all the time OR you aren't exclusive and don't expect much.

Daniela1982 · Answer

It is common to be dating more than one person. But it's not fair to keep them hanging for any length of time. You have to pick one. Otherwise, it makes you look like you are dating for a free meal and entertainment and you may get that reputation and then get no dates. 😯

FunkyMonkee · Answer

First, you throw one in the air with your right hand and then throw the other in the air with your left hand and, in the same motion catch the first one then toss the third one with your right, again and, in the same motion, catch the 2nd in your right, etc..

Anonymous · Answer

I know a lady who was involved with 3 different men at once. She had some sort of "don't ask don't tell" arrangement with them all. She was scatter-brained and confused all the time and I don't think it was a healthy thing for her. Note: I was NOT one of the 3... 😂

Nikki1989 · Answer

It was easy when I was younger, I couldn't do it now. I juggle two now and that is more than enough.

RedTiefling · Answer

I don't, I date one person at a time. It feels weird to me to try and be invested in multiple people at once. But that's just me.

Vegasrunner · Answer

TBH it's takes years of practice. The first thing you need to do as a man is make sure your value is high enough that you will have multiple options. Women struggle w/ this because they are looking for everything from one man.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I can appreciate that lol even for me, there's so many people lol 😂😆 the eyes can't keep up 👀👁️👀

exitseven · Answer

I did date a couple of girls at the same time one winter. I thought it made me cool. Really, I was just a jerk.

Cormac995 · Answer

I'm the same way. It always felt disingenuous to me to do that.

Pupweb · Answer

I don’t. One person is already enough energy used up

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I don't. I focus on one person at a time and hope for the best.

glennos89 · Answer

Great question! I don't understand it either 🤷🏼‍♂️

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s impossible to juggle them the average person is 185 pounds

LiamJHayden · Answer

I have dozens of guitars and like to play them all at different times, depeding upon my mood.

princeofromance · Answer

They can only do this for so long without getting caught.

CuteMommy · Answer

Nope it does not work for me.. one person at a time please...

Agape93 · Answer

I just do, it's not hard for me

NathanDavis · Answer

I've only juggled knives

DryGermanGuy · Answer

A bewildering concept. I couldn’t do it. 😵‍💫

Anonymous · Answer

What do you mean juggle multiple people at once?

Anonymous · Answer

I can’t do it either

Staximus · Answer

You just don't

Jay-_- · Answer

Simple response to your question. You don't.

Tomisworthless · Answer

I dont, God keeps me antisocial

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Same..

Lynx122 · Answer

I don't.

kaucky1 · Answer

If got more than one Weiner it's doable

eagle1951 · Answer

carefully lol

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