Why do I keep getting one worded responses?

[Anonymous]

I get these responses all the time to the point where I either stop responding or I unmatch them. I just dont understand cause they all pursued me first too. Like how come I ask them a question and they never ask me a question back like its so annoying do i try harder or just leave them alone

[Zack-Bann]

You really can’t see it?


This is the most boring and logical series if questions you dan ask


What you doing?
Where are you right now?
How’s it going?


So you even care about the answers she has to give? Because you shouldn’t.


Texting is all about the emotions you can trigger.
You need to flirt, tease, challenge, introduce fun topics and ideas


If these are matches from apps you can comment on the pictures.


[if she has tattoos] i like the tats, how many do you have?
Her: 5 and you?
You: none. If you ask my grandma ;)
Her: oh haha and who should I ask?
You: you can ask yourself if it’s worth finding out after our first date…


You see, this is the type of vibes you should be aiming for.
So stop stop with the mundane questions and take a few risks: worst case you get ghosted which is what’s happening already

[incorrected]

It's a sign of disinterest. I'm not surprised though, this is the kind of boring small talk that would take place with a taxi driver to avoid awkward silences. ChatGPT could teach you how to be more engaging.

[silvermoon84]

This might just my humble opinion, but whenever I text like that, it’s usually because I’m either tied up with something or because I’m trying to gently signal to the guy that I lost interest without having to have that painful conversation with him (that I usually end up having anyway). I would back off and see if she texts you. If she doesn’t, sorry to say but she wasn’t that interested

[bobalife]

Sometimes, a girl wants to see if a guy is genuine and puts effort for her to also invest to reciprocate and show interest as well. Other times, you might not have her attention very much just yet. Or she could just be bored and not genuinely looking for anything other than attention, validation, or someone to talk to. It goes both ways for both genders in modern dating.

[Rob59692]

That makes no sense. Every time I got one word replies, I’d stop texting. Why am I gonna put effort into someone who doesn’t care? And if she wants validation, why not say “I’m talking to someone I’m interested in the moment” instead of leading them on?

[bobalife]

I’m just answering the question here sir. And you do you as you please. Anyone who wants validation, both genders, will not say that lol. That line is to end something by the way.

[strateguy632]

2nd was just being efficient answered questions. So ask when she wants to talk on phone. But long distance won't work.

[Nikki1989]

That probably says more about you than them. Sorry.

[Asker]

Tf does this mean?

[PeachyPie93]

Drop them.. never put effort in convo's that the other person doesn't bother with.

[Flower7]

In both conversations, I see questions on both sides.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lacks interest, you gotta try to get her interested before she stops responding, that's if you aren't don't trying yet

[Sevenpointfive]

dick

her

down

don't play words to win her heart.