I can’t find boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I want boyfriend but guys that interested in me only want to sleep with me. I want just to hangout together, not sexual relationship. But I’m not attractive enough to find guy that just want to go out with me, also I don’t want to date with too ugly and short guys. I mean I don’t want super handsome boyfriend, he can look goofy but not too short and not be stupid and rude.
I never dated, so it feel like it’s something impossible for me. It feels like I should sleep with men tho he will go out with me in return but i don’t want to do it.

[incorrected]

If you can't get a guy without offering sex then he isn't interested in you and he still won't be interested in you after the sex. If you're turning down guys because they're not tall enough or 'too ugly', what's that mean? How short is too short, and how ugly are we talking? For most women 80% of men are invisible to them, so if you're trying to get one of those 20% of men you find attractive and you're not attractive physically or as a person, it isn't going to work and you're being too picky. Is that what you're doing? It's impossible to tell from your post. To give any solid advice it would require a picture of you and some idea what your personality is like, and pictures of the kinds of guys you're desiring, the kind you'd accept, and the kind you wouldn't accept. Short end of the stick, you need some friends to give you some solid advice.

[glennos89]

Why are you judging yourself like that? You look different to yourself them other people do and you might be thinking you are not attractive enough but that's something you have let to believe yourself but Im pretty sure that I look completely different at you then you do yourself.

Finding a boyfriend isn't that difficult and you will find yours but if you have dont show yourself with a profile picture it's definitely not helping you to find someone. Personally I wouldn't invest my time in getting to know someone that doesn't show who they are first. Physical attraction is the first step of attraction but a profile without pictures is not helping you in any way

[DAAAISYYY]

YO girl what u talking abouttt

fck people who says this sht stuff to you

u re a beatiful queen

never let them talk you like this

its just your time hasn't come yet

i also couldnt find a loyal king to myself yet

dont care about this stuff just continue your life as a queen

[ChicoFromThe305]

Don't do that, keep respecting yourself like you currently do, if you have to give your body to someone for them to stay then you best believe they won't stay when they find a body to replace yours with, keep looking, you've gotta find someone that wants to explore your heart and personality not just your 👇🏼

Keep looking, don't give up and change up your sources, if you are doing just dating apps then switch things around, try a store or a mechanic shop or something, for the most part the shittiest people are on dating apps just looking for hookups, either that or make some changes to your preferences, or if you see a pattern explore other options.

[Zack-Bann]

Are you looking for advice?


If so here’s one:
Change where you’re looking.


Often we forget that our daily reality isn’t the only one available for us.


If all the short ugly guys who wanna sleep with you can be found at your work, or school, or public library try looking for men in other places.


Go to various events and gatherings and try to mingle with a new crowd.
Maybe you’ll find someone just right.

[Unit1]

"also I don’t want to date with short guys."

Aha, I see the problem here.

NEXT QUESTION

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 Tell us you're punching above your weight without telling us you're punching above your weight.

[Anonymous]

So, no question then?

[In_Trance]

so what's your question?

[Anonymous]

You want too much.

[Zack-Bann]

All she asked for was a decent guy who’s not too ugly or short 😂

Hardly asking for the moon here