Would you date a couple?

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Valdemort · Accepted Answer

For some odd reason, I recently got asked by a guy if I wanted to be in a throuple with him. I said yes, cause I had no idea what it was, and it sounded fun. On closer inspection I learned I would, in fact, not. 🤣

Jennz6 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would date you and your boyfriend.

ShellyB · Answer

In my specific situation no I would not, bc I am in a relationship that I wouldn’t want to risk, but if I was single and the right couple asked, tbh yes that is a fantasy and I would like to try it, I doubt it could be a longterm thing but I would give it a try. JMO!

Finchie40 · Answer

2 girls’ yes but a guy and girl No

incorrected · Answer

What does it mean to "date" a couple? Are we talking being a third wheel in the bedroom or dating with a view to becoming a permanent partner in a thruple, or something else?

I wouldn't bother with threesome stuff because I tried it and didn't like it. I wouldn't bother with the later because it's complicated enough to maintain a simple two-way relationship, let alone a three-way one, and in almost every single case that's going to end up with two preferring each other and one being the third wheel even if it's not me who ends up the loser in that equation.

Breezie2024 · Answer

I am bisexual. It would be tough to get to marriage as a goal which is only legal in one stste that I am aware. if it was just for a fling again to find that you like two people and jealousy could come out if it, don't kniw that I could. Focus is usually on one person at a time.

Aubrey97 · Answer

It makes me think of April "dating" one of the gay guys in that old Parks & Rec show but the whole thing isn't serious. People don't really do that, do they?

Zack-Bann · Answer

Two bi-girls in a lesbian relationship looking to add a masculine element to it: I’d consider it.

Anything else: not my cup of tea.

Basically I wouldn’t associate the term dating with the presence of a man at any capacity

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I have absolutely nothing against polyamorous couples, I just don't think it's for me. I can't see myself splitting my relationship brain in 2.

HungTexan · Answer

Are you referring to a heterosexual couple— definitely yes if my wife agreed. A lesbian couple - maybe with spouse approval. A gay guy couple might be too much.

LaureenVO · Answer

No, I'm not the jealous type, but I am protective over my partner and don't like to share haha

lilBigPotato · Answer

Sounds like trouble. Anything longer then a night is unlikely to last

molonski2 · Answer

Yeah 100% in casual kind of Status , as long as all were onboard and knew where they stood.

abc3643 · Answer

A couple of hot identical twins, you bet! I had this issue!

pinkCadillac2 · Answer

I respect polyamorous couples, but it sounds overly complicated and I wouldn't want to do it.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No way. I've been down the "entangled" road before. It gets too messy too fast.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'd have to be single first. Then would have to be clear on boundaries

YourExLover69 · Answer

I'd date two lesbian girls which are also bisexual only.

Cormac995 · Answer

No. I don't like polygamy, and I don't think it's ethical.

Miristheiss · Answer

No.  I dated heterosexual women, one at a time.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. Not interested in guys, and one woman at a time is enough.

Nightmoon23 · Answer

Date a couple no but invite them to do stuff with us probably

Purpleronnie · Answer

The idea is just ridiculous to me

Summeroflove · Answer

No lol

jazzy34 · Answer

No. I’m not with that polyamorous stuff.

danielle872024 · Answer

One man for me so no

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nah I'm not into the three-way stuff

Nikki1989 · Answer

How would that work?

DishLady · Answer

A couple of what? 😒

Kelly6 · Answer

@maria0002 yes I would

Nerdvana · Answer

Date yes, marry no.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Definitely not

Billlewis · Answer

I pretty much always do.

NathanDavis · Answer

a couple of what?

Pohjolan · Answer

Only if its a pair of Bi-women.

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

A couple of chicks.

Avicenna · Answer

Fuck no

exitseven · Answer

a couple of girls maybe.

ahkfn · Answer

Absolutely not.

katsiaryna_994 · Answer

I would if they are beautiful

DrPepper12 · Answer

Date as in courtship no but NSA is fine

Deadpool99 · Answer

Nope

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I still haven't lost my mind!

Iron_Man · Answer

Never I’m straight

MikeRJ · Answer

What kind of relationship would that be?

shortster · Answer

If it was a lesbian couple

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Yeah, no chance for strife there.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nope. Never

HM1189 · Answer

If you're mentioning two women, than yes

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

Nope

12karen · Answer

Nope

aquamarine321 · Answer

No I wouldn’t

Laura131 · Answer

Depends on who it is

lightbulb27 · Answer

So what?

SleepingHazard · Answer

I'm good, thanks.

byrdman89 · Answer

yes definitely

Staximus · Answer

Hell no

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope

MrTaboo · Answer

only ladies.

hello4433 · Answer

Nope

blackeagle007 · Answer

I’ll pass

bigjake1014 · Answer

Yes I would

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