What would you do?
G@gers who have had this experiences, how it was?
I dated a married couple it was fine we went to nice restraunts and nice clubs got anything I wanted to drink... I had to give husband blowjobs whenever he wanted and the wife didn't seem to mind at all... she had a young boyfriend and often I was left alone with her husband in the den giving him blowjobs in my minidress on my knees which is how he liked them... we saw each other for 3 months maybe every other weekend... she accused me of being jealous of her which wasn't the case they had 3 kids and I wasn't or didn't want to replace her... her husband was nice cool to talk to he read a lot of books and we both came from queens ny so we got along that way... I always wore mini dresses which was a requirement from her but I think she got annoyed with me or felt I was getting too close to her husband... actually I met her husband because she wanted to him have a nice birthday gift.
Interesting.
Lucky sound like a blast sorry it didn't work out longer for you @chrissykerdock I would love to do something like that where could I find couples like that look for a boy toy/young boyfriend
Hey, well i been asked before if i could be in a relationship with a married couple... and they were very respectful to my decision by saying that i am straight, but if i were to be both sided i would definitely say yes and i would be into them both. But i am not, and the married couple said if i ever cross over and wanted to have fun with them that they would be there if i ever change my mind. It was respectable and sweet and short, but they didn't push it on me. Thats what i did when they asked me. Enjoy your sweet day!😊
Thank you for the MHO 😎
Not really , it just turns into a sexual connection that more then likely won’t last , I dated 2 girls that were a couple they were both bi sexual , that lived together , I was just their boy toy pretty much , it was great while it lasted. But we were mainly just FWB’s We would party together and go places together and have great sex. But I was pretty much the 3rd wheel cuz they were in love with each other and they both agreed to only have sex with me when they were together , but that didn’t last the 1 girl started secretly having one on one sex with me and her girlfriend found out and they ended up fighting over it so the whole thing turned bad when the other girl went and had sex with another guy, and ended up getting pregnant , We all drifted after that and they broke up and haven’t heard or seen them since , so I prefer a one on one relationship
I would certainly be curious. My big issue would always be that I was a third wheel entering their relationship.
If it was all new people all at once then would certainly be interesting but I think it would be hard to balance. At one point someone is going to want to continue with life (have kids or move away) and at that moment you could break the whole dynamic for all involved. And at that its not just a break up you have lost 2 people potentially and that could be your entire support network.
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Nope. That's too intense. I don't want to get between love.
Personally I wouldn't. I find it hard to believe that you can love both people equally so I feel like that would cause problems. As is, love between 2 people comes with a lot of pain, I could only imagine all the arguments and hurting could happen in a relationship with 2 other people.
But then again, this is my personal take. If you find a way to work it out, go for it! Hope this helped 💫
Actually my ex boyfriend and I dated another guy.
It got messy: I found out I liked the other guy better, and the other guy liked my boyfriend better...
Nobody left that situation happy.
I kept dating the other guy for a little while but he was obviously unhappy with me so we amicably broke up.
Ouch.
No. I have a hard enough time pleasing one person at a time.
Seriously, though... someone must have primacy. I cannot imagine trying to be emotionally tied romantically to two people in o e relationship.
My guess is that it's something one does if they are able to compartmentalize their life and relationships.
My mind just doesn't get it. I am too old fashioned.
I've been in a 4 way polygynous relationship before. 3 women and me. It was pretty cool, i'd do it again. But i think perhaps just having 2 girlfriends would be easier tham having 3.
One of the problems is sex. It can get quite complicated to have sex with 3 other people at once, so you end up naturally forming a preference towards just one of them. But then you start to feel guilty for not fucking the other two often enough. And simultaneously feel jealous that they're constantly fucking eachother instead of you. I would just fuck one of them maybe 3x per week, fuck the others maybe once per week, and we'd have group sex maybe once per month.
I think sex would just be much easier to manage if it is just a 3 way relationship.
I have. It can be… problematic. They ended up splitting up shortly after I left.
You were the missing link lol
Did any jealousy spring up if I may ask?
Or they brought you in to fix the relationship if it was already strained?
Guy and a girl. Freshman year at university, they had already been together for a while and wanted to “spice things up.” They knew I was openly Bi and propositioned me. My first poly relationship. Dated for like 2-3 months independently and together. Had more in common with her so we spent more time together. He wasn’t a fan of that and we all talked it out. I left in an attempt to save the preexisting relationship. She realized how little she actually had in common with him and they split up. I still talk to her every once in a while but she switched majors so we don’t see each other often, especially now that everything is online.
I understand, thank you for sharing your experience.
Nope I'll pass. I rather put my energy all into one person. It can become problematic with an extra person
Assuming I know them well and they are good people then I maybe would. I have no experience with that though so I dont think it would end well.
Im open minded to the idea, but i highly doubt I would.
No. I'm strictly monogamous. More people just means more drama and more trouble in my opinion (most people can't manage one relationship let alone two or more).
I’ve never heard of that and NO I would not. I’m a one man only kinda women
No. I was in love with a guy, we lost touch, he got married and he wanted me to consider a relationship with him and his bi wife. There is just no way.
A couple of lesbians sure.
... U know that being a lesbian means that ur only interested in women right?
@DanaeAdam5 you realise how many women have lots of sex with men before "deciding" they are gay.
I've had sex with a lesbian couple who were curious about men, needless to say they are both still lesbians, though no longer virgins in the traditional sense. I was happy.
Hell no. I was friends w a girl and her and her boyfriend constantly pushed me to date them but I'm super uncomfortable with that. I could only ever be in a monogamous relationship. I don't have the energy nor desire to please two people romantically. I feel like it would get messy too. People would choose favorites and jealousy would be inevitable with one of the people or all. Too complicated not for me
Well technically if you date them they're not a couple anymore you'd all be a trio.
I don't think I've ever seen a trio relationship.
Even in religions where multiple wives are allowed it's never really an orgy it's more turn based than that.
Personally I think dating one person is drama enough. Dating two is just inviting trouble.
And I'm straight as an arrow so they'd have to be a lesbian couple which will not be easy to please either.
Honestly I've always liked the idea of a throuple relationship. Whenever I read books about love triangles I always think that they could all be one happy couple. So I wouldn't be against it
If I was single and two bi women wanted to try it out, I'd be down. I've had relationships like that before with more than one woman. I'm not gay/bi, so no hetero couples.
No, while I respect people's rights to do as they please I personally don't see a difference between non-mongamy and staying with a cheater.
This would be interesting to date a hetero couple but everything must stay away from their kids. And I suppose a man can please two woman. So it is fine.
Oh no, that's definitely bound to bring trouble someday and I want a peaceful life lol
Yes this is one of those things I love to get into , I mean I would love to be in a relationship with a man and woman at the same time
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