Something I heard that sounded condescending in the dating aspect?

[blackeagle007]

It was on plenty of fish. com. It had advice forums, no one uses it anymore being that site is worthless. Anyway, someone said “ oh I feel bad for average people, they just have to try so hard to attract someone”

Im average, Im content with it. Nothing I can do to change it. Average guys have beautiful gf’s and wives. I feel that saying is telling average people they aren’t good enough to date. Is it an American thing to be all looks focused or a human thing.

by the way I’m American.

[DishLady]

So it's a person who thinks very highly of themselves (the Jock/Head Cheerleader type who has scads of people chasing them... or at least that's what they want you to think).

There's nothing wrong with being "average" -- it's actually abnormal to seek out being too extreme in either direction anyway. As for the comment about working hard... we each reap what we sow. If we work hard at finding the right person and getting things off the ground then we'll end up with the relationship we want. If we are awkward and don't know what we're doing and keep trying to force something to happen when we're not ready... we earn what we work towards... And this nonsensical genetic marvel who posted this has probably never been in a satisfying relationship in his/her life. Don't fret over one idiot's comment.

[blackeagle007]

I’m still dealing with esteem things. Just sick of people being know it alls, looking their noses down. But that person means nothing to me

[DishLady]

So don't give their ideas power by repeating them. Just set them out of your mind and you do you.