Are relationships only hard, because the people themselves, chose poorly?

[NicholasRedone]

And I emphasise, chose.

[Anonymous]

No. But that is a majority of it. Relationships, even the good ones will still require work. But in general most people do not choose very good matches. People are typically drawn to what they find attractive not who would actually be best for them.

Here's actually a video that explains it better

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Hvysy11716g

[KITEinStorm]

Everything is difficult without the right match. When you make the right choice, everything becomes easy.

[HungTexan]

It’s not just about choice, but compatibility and communication are so important and it hard for some people. And then there’s the issue of sexual compatibility.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's one of the reasons, but today's generation is hard to deal with, especially that they are lost and lacks of morals and values!

[Anonymous]

Sometimes you just don't have much of a choice.

[Sunrising]

You're probably right.

[RageBabe]

Yes, at least for my previous relationship.

[LazerBean]

Mostly yes