Why the handsome guys hardly approach women?

[Anonymous]

This generation seem to rely more to dating apps or within their friends circle/connections.

[ohsheeT]

I think it all just depends on the moment. On what's going on? What they're doing

I know for me. I always have an agenda. If I see somebody.
That I like or something I will definitely look, but I'm on a mission to complete whatever it is, I'm doing. In that moment

But if i'm not doing anything And there's a time in a place

You can communicate with just your eyes And her eyes will tell you exactly what she wants Kind of or if She is interested Her eyes will tell you it's okay to approach her

[DishLady]

Because they're used to women throwing themselves on them. It's not a generational thing. I've seen this with guys in their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s. The girls have always flocked to them so they just take the path of least resistance and pick them off one by one till the next round of girls appears. They don't need to "work" to get a girl in bed. They're often not even that great to a woman in bed. In their minds they don't have to be because there will always be another woman right around the corner.

And when they finally see the girl who isn't chasing them... they wonder why... And chase her...

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with dating in your extended friend group (friends of friends)

[Zack-Bann]

Because handsome ≠ socially skilled


And anytime a guy is somewhat good looking he will often hear to no end
“Oh waw women must throw themselves at you huh”
That creates a mental pressure because they don’t.
Not because they don’t want to but because it’s a woman’s thing to do.


Just look at these comments. Everyone assumes handsome men don’t need to do anything because they magically have options.


it’s not true

[Asker]

It's the same thing also happening to women. The ugly guys/not proper ones most of the time coming.

[Zack-Bann]

It all comes down to people not going for what they want when they can.

End of the day if you see a guy you like all you have to do is approach him.

Average guys tend to be bolder because they’re used to rejection and that ironically leads them to having more success than hot guys in the long run

[genericname85]

for the same reason women rarely approach men. you don't have to go out of your way to find more options, if you're already overwhelmed with options throwing themself at you to begin with.

[AnonAndrew]

Sorry to say, but they do approach women, they may just not have approached you.

[Nikki1989]

Since when. I was approached just a few hours ago.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Handsome men dont need to chase when the women are falling all over them

[Anonymous]

Same reason women don't approach guys. When the 🐱 jumps into your lap you don't need to approach women.😆

[Ironic_Method]

Because they don't need to, options come to them.

[jahaims]

He doesn't need to