Is he not interested now that we’ve had s** or is he just not texting as much for another reason?

[Anonymous]

We have been talking for about 3 weeks. We texted tons and finally met last Wednesday. We had a really good time and did end up hooking up. He said he wants to see me again this week but we haven’t actually made plans. He still texts good morning everyday and a bit throughout the day. Most of his texts throughout the day are more responsive to what I said and not often much of anything moving the conversation forward. Sometimes if he just sends a laughing emoji response I will leave that alone until he says something else. He generally doesn’t say goodnight. Just unsure if this means he has lost interest or just doesn’t feel like we need to text as much since we have made that in person and physical meeting already and plan to continue (I hope).

[xkildy]

Talk to him once you are physical together about your fears

[Asker]

I’m the worst at not talking about things yet overthink everything. I’m probably overthinking this snd just need to sit down and stop worrying about it. It is what it is, he's either interested or he’s not.

[xkildy]

True, but thinking is good, without a hopeful thought we would all be lost. Overthinking happens. When you question your self in a manner like. ( what if) he likes this but not that then I will have to do this instead of thay. You have like 5 plans if one fails you switch to another thay can be very distracting from dating cause your not being your. At this point your only making sure he is felling good and likes you back. It's a very nice gesture and I would love it 😀. But you need to focus more on balance and you for instance if you are trying so hard to make sure he likes you what happens s when you get tired. And he sees a different side of you that would have been there if you had not been trying to make sure he seen what you wanted him to see. I'm saying just be your self. And yes thank of him and what he want but don't let it consume you changing who you are

[Asker]

Great advice. Thank you

[xkildy]

You're welcome, I hope you can understand it well <3 good luck

[Anonymous]

You could try actually talking to him. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

I could, probably will soon. I’m just horrible at it. I guess better to know than wonder.

[LiamS95]

He got what he wanted and now is no longer interested.

[Asker]

So, that is what I am afraid of. He does talk to me everyday, just not as much as before. I don’t know, I think I am just going to pull back and see what happens. I don’t want to be the main one putting in effort.

[LiamS95]

Good idea.

[DreamCrescent]

agree. i wouldn’t bother talking to him. i’d just create distance and protect myself

lookup breadcrumbing. he’s replying just enough so you can’t say he doesn’t. but he’s not making any effort to date you and that should be quite clear to you. good luck girlie

[Asker]

@DreamCrescent esh, yeahhhh. Dating these days sucks. I was married for a long time.

[jahaims]

U got used

[In_Trance]

Not interested