Guys: Why do you watch your crush stories instead of just following her?

[Femmefatale97]

[TonyMetal___86]

A rational female showing up to everyone just wearing a string underwear or bikini in her profile photo? 🤣🤣

Maybe they just want to check you out but do not want to follow because you're just another boobs and an a$$ to them, why follow? 😂😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause, when you get in a pool do you just jump in or do you stick a foot in to check the temperature? Lol

[Femmefatale97]

What is he checking for consistently here time and time again? Usually you only check once?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Temperature changes, it's a working technique actually, there's many moments you follow someone cause you get the wrong idea then you find out they have an onlyfans or something, with public accounts it makes things easier, you check em out for a while see what they are all about

[Femmefatale97]

Ah you’re saying he is probing my character… lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Geez that is a weird way to say it, like he's some alien 😂

But yea sure

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't do that I'm not shy at all if I like someone I go for it

[Anonymous]

Why not.

[Femmefatale97]

Why he’s?

[Femmefatale97]

Why yes?

[Anonymous]

Following her could weird her out.

[Femmefatale97]

Why? How is just lurking better?

[Opinion Owner]

It would be like if you followed a woman in real life. She would get creeped out and wonder what your intentions were.

[Femmefatale97]

But what if the attraction is mutual? Is he hoping I would see it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but men still worry about if the woman thinks they have bad intentions in mind. We overthink stuff of this nature a lot.

[Femmefatale97]

If you were him, what would you want me
To do?

[Opinion Owner]

You need to reach out to him and let him know that the feeling is mutual. This will alleviate his fears.

[Femmefatale97]

Do I follow him?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, because then he will see that you are showing interest in him and realize you like him as much as he likes you.