What is the likelihood of a sexual relationship becoming a romantic relationship?

[SunshinenMezcal]

Kind of feeling like when you’re in your early 20s that is how a lot of relationships start. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy so they get it on lol and before you know it they are in a relationship but I don’t feel like that is how it works when you’re in your 40s. There’s a guy that I’m really into and I’m pretty sure if we were to be alone, it would be on like Donkey Kong! He has invited me over but I keep making excuses for why I can’t go over and he asked if he could come to my house and again I made excuses. It’s not that I don’t wanna sleep with him, because I definitely do. I just don’t wanna end up being friends with benefits.

[ohsheeT]

Well I thank you for your question. And your answer.. for the last past 4 years I had to take care of someone that had.. dimension pretty bad they past. And I'm just starting to get myself back... and I really want to start going out and dating.. and your answer made me think .. I can't do it the way I use to do it.

I would meet someone that need help with a car or house it was always something. And netting would lead to another.. and somehow we would end up in bed.. and I would always tell them we shouldn't. Because I already know the out come. They were just not my type for the long haul. .
And don't get me wrong they were nice girls but I new it's not what I wanted. .. and I would give in and say OK we can try...

And any where from 8 month to a year. It would be over.. and I don't want to do it that way any more. .. and your question just reminded me .

That I'm not going to do that anymore it's just not worth it to me. And not right for them either

So I thank you for reminding me

[NicholasRedone]

I feel like everyone wishes the 20s never ends 😈🫣

[butterly248]

Possible but low

[SunshinenMezcal]

We have never had sex or that kind of relationship but I feel like that is where things are headed. So if I do not sleep with him, then he will most likely lose interest… Correct?

[Pterodon]

Not very good. He’s already getting pussy

[SunshinenMezcal]

Not from me yet.

[Pterodon]

Good

[MikeRJ]

Get to know him first.

[MasterKS]

It would be mess!

[Anonymous]

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