To those who have kissed before, how did it feel to have your first kiss with the right person?

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SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

My first kiss was perfect. Just perfect.

I was 12 years old, and my best friend was moving away. We had recently realized there was something more than friendship between us.

I'm almost 40 years old. And even looking back... the feelings we had for each other (not just romantic. We were really close) were super-intense. Way more intense than they should have been at such a young age. This wasn't some puppy-love bullshit. I cared deeply about her. She was definitely the "right person" for my first kiss. It was freaking magical.

Anyway...

The very last day we had together before she moved we were hanging out together in the park. It was this gloomy overcast rainy day in June. We were going back and forth between laughing flirting and having fun as per our usual; and these intensely emotional moments as we both realized... after today... that's it. Lots of laughing and crying... then more laughing and... then some more crying. It was a super emotionally charged day.

I don't remember what immediately preceded the kiss (I don't know if I kissed her, or she kissed me, or if sorta happened mutually)

I do however, distinctly remember the kiss itself. So both had our first kiss... at the park under lightly falling rain... on our very last day together.

It was an extremely passionate kiss because it was so emotionally charged. I'm thinking back and... I think it might have been the most passion-filled kiss of my entire life. It was a looong kiss too.

How did it feel?

Emotionally-

I don't even know if I can describe this in words. It felt incredible. It felt extremely extremely intimate. It was as though the kissing was a physical expression of the feelings we couldn't put into words. It was a feeling of "closeness" and being connected.

It was exciting, it was arousing But really It was the feeling of closeness and connectedness that were the strongest emotional overtones.

It was... just amazing. It was perfect. (I've got this stupid grin on my face right now as I'm thinking back on that kiss)

Physically

Physically... I would have to say that kissing wasn't quite what I was expecting. I remember well some of the feelings of surprise as I experienced these unexpected physical aspects of kissing along with all the emotional stuff going on.

I would describe how it felt physically as "strange" or "weird".

If you step back and think about it... kissing is fucking weird. Objectively.

Two people put their mouths together and stick their tongues in each other's mouths.

So I remember being surprised by what someone else's tongue felt like in my mouth... it was... weird! Not in a bad way, just in a way I wasn't expecting. And the weirdness came along with all of the passion, the closeness and all that other stuff.

It's not like I was thinking "wow... this is weird" the whole time we kissed. I do remember thinkin exactly that for a moment though. Then it stops being so strange once you kiss for a while.

After we both went home, I was sad because she was leaving. So I wasn't sitting there afterwards feeling some afterglow from that amazing first kiss (and the 2 hours or so of making out we did after we had that first kiss that day)

I was actually really fucking sad when I got home that day... because she was leaving. I wasn't going to see her again.

I think I was legitimately depressed that summer. I missed her so much. She was a huge part of my life. We were either hanging out, or spending hours taking on the phone every day and every evening. I felt really down for a few months after she left. I still remember crying my fucking eyes out more-than-once that summer.

I couldn't have asked for a better first-kiss experience. It was perfect. And it was for sure with the right person.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

All my girlfriends, from the time I was 16 were good kissers. They knew how.

But there is one who stands out. When I was 36, I met a lady and asked her out to dinner. She was 30. We got along really well on our date. I walked her to her door like a gentleman afterwards.

We said good night and, before she opened her door, she turned and looked up into my eyes. I'm 6'2 and she was 5'1 but over 5'4" in her heels.

She stepped forward, reached up and put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes with her body pressed against mine, and gave me a soft, lingering kiss. No tongue or anything. Her lips were extraordinarily tender and the breath when she exhaled through her nose as we kissed was warm and sweet. That kiss actually my head started buzzing. I had never experienced that reaction from a kiss before. I could tell from that kiss that she was sensual.

I was right.

On our second date, we made out passionately, virtually eating each other's faces. She was truly expert.

We wound up living together for almost two years and she turned out to be hypersexyal and orgasmic. She took me to sexual heights that I had never imagined.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I have been kissing people for as long as I remember, but the first kiss that actually meant something to me happened when I met my first girlfriend at 14.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

It was like time stopped for a moment, then it sunk in what just happened and my face became red as a tomato.

AviatorTom · Answer

The first kiss with the right person is very nice... triggers a desire to kiss them more.

Anonymous · Answer

My first kiss was with a disgusting bitch that I found out a few years ago was a rapist. In fact, she was raping a friend of mine WHILE WE WERE DATING! I had no idea until I talked to that friend later in life and she told me. (We're not close but we're friendly and on good terms her husband's my weed dealer.)

I was blown away but thinking back a bunch of things made sense. My ex was very physical and grinded on me a lot but any time I tried to initiate a kiss she got upset or touch her first she got angry and upset. I also remembered that she had a habit of going to the bathroom just after my friend and after a few times my friend started taking a bathroom buddy with her.

She was also super messed up in the head even when we were together and looking back at some other signs and her home life, I think there were at least a few times she was raped by her mom's revolving door of boyfriends. I think that's why she raped my friend. I think she was raped and started raping her to cope for some sick fucked up reason.

Needless to say, my first kiss is tainted forever now that I know that, and I grimace and feel sick to my stomach when I think about it. At the time before I was aware of all of this though the kisses when they happened felt incredible. I've only kissed a few times before in my life but I really liked it when I did. It might sound cliche but it made me feel alive.

It felt really good to feel so close and connected with someone (At the time). My skin got hot and flushed, my heart rate shot up, I dug my fingers into her cloths and held her really tight. I was panting by the time we were done. For a long time, I remembered it as an incredible experience. Now I just feel sick since I know what was happening that I didn't see at the time.

NicholasRedone · Answer

In my daydreams, I knew I'd have to find the almost female version of myself, that complements me in the sense she's more submissive, more shorter, etc qualities.

And prettier than me, yet not perfect. As no one is perfect and I've reminded myself of that lately as a perfectionist. Amateur videos on PornHub of real couples, really, reminds me how it's nicer when people look almost perfect yet still have some blemishes, like skin tones, etc. one wrinkle.

sawno · Answer

Surprisingly mundane. She was amazing, there were many moments where I felt those rushes of immense connection, love and a draw to be together. So I expected the kiss to be like that where i'd feel a rush of excitement or love. But didn't happen, so I don't think my body is like that. Thats fine though I already experience it on a very deep level outside of kisses and I do enjoy kissing because its a great way to express my love.

RingOfFire · Answer

It was 57 years ago and I still remember it.

My summer love... age 13 lived in the neighborhood when my parents had a summer home on a private beach. We knew each other each summer growing up and hung out together.

The sun was going down and we were walking on the beach. I couldn't possibly have been more romantic. There was a beautiful sunset seabirds were flying by. She stopped and turned to me...

MemeSupreme · Answer

like nothing besides laughing at him bc he said "hey wanna kiss" lmao it was the way he said it

molonski2 · Answer

" The right person " , you will find the right person 100s of times in your life , and yes I tell you what , its started utterly brilliantly and its always continued on , brilliant.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It wasn't the right person, just a girl I had a slight crush on for some years.. I slipped and we just ended up kissing.. Afterwards was much better..

Cutegirl06 · Answer

First kiss with the right person is amazing!!

RedThread · Answer

Hmm I don't remember when I had my first kiss... It might have been around 8th or 9th grade. It honestly wasn't memorable enough for me to remember all these years later.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

First kisses are always nice and feel good unless the person can't kiss for shit lol

Zack-Bann · Answer

Oh the right person she was not 😂 But the kiss was pretty fun

LiamS95 · Answer

It felt wonderful and just naturally turned into a French kiss and we just couldn't stop kissing or smiling at each other. We were both about 15 or 16.

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

It wasn’t the right person, my sister’s friend forced it and she was older than me.

Shiprex · Answer

It's nice and tastes good to feel the other person reacting to you immediately

Eempriyanka · Answer

I haven't had first kiss yet, but I imagine it should be hot

RedInnocent69 · Answer

The first is rarely the right, as in forever, person. It’s more opportunistic/right now

supercutebutt · Answer

It felt like a great way to spread germs.

Anonymous · Answer

I never had a kiss in my life. Maybe in my past life, but I can't remember it.

MoonFace2 · Answer

It was magical

Simslover92 · Answer

It felt like heaven.

Summeroflove · Answer

Awkward lol

SolitarySolace · Answer

No such thing as the right person

Rohaan2020 · Answer

It was amazing… we both were too passionate

Professor-college · Answer

It's still my greatest memory 😀

Manuelwe · Answer

It depends on the person who received it

lilBigPotato · Answer

Awkward

WhitneySnow · Answer

Amazing!!!

Jay-_- · Answer

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