How to Respond When Your Girlfriend Ignores You?

[Anonymous]

[abbyjgriffin98]

Well, first of all, ignoring is very passive aggressive and very immature. I personally wouldn't want to be with a man who would rather ignore me as opposed to just having a conversation with me. But why is she ignoring you? What was your last interaction before she started ignoring you? Did you do something particularly bad to her? Or did you just say an offhand remark and hurt her feelings? There's not enough information for anyone to tell you what might be wrong. It could be something you did. It could be something that has nothing to do with you and she's just in a bad mood. You'll never know unless you ask. And if she refuses to tell you and keeps ignoring you, it's your decision whether you want to stay or leave.

[DishLady]

I’d rhe person isn’t communicating with me properly I’m going to start shutting down as well. What I dislike more than the ignoring is the claim that you’ll talk and then not addressing the issue….

[ProbablyClueless]

These days? She wouldn't have much rope to play with. I can't stand people who don't communicate, so I simply wouldn't be in a relationship with someone whose response to conflict is to shut down.

I would gently and politely insist on talking about whatever it is we needed to talk about. If she wasn't receptive to either doing that, or setting a particular time in the future when we would; that would be a sign that the relationship needed to end.

[DishLady]

I’d like to pick your brain on this one. If she was waiting for you to get back to her and you weren’t doing so, wouldn’t she just wait for you to bring it up? How would you suggest bringing it up without “nagging”?

[ProbablyClueless]

@DishLady I'm a really easy guy to communicate, You can just say things to me. If I were to ask her about whatever I needed from her, and she just told me straight up that she was waiting on me to tell her _____ before she could answer my question; that would be perfectly fine.

[NicholasRedone]

Hell I'd either picked carefully the first time or I'd politely (because I'm a human) of her feelings and just politely say "I think it's not working," genuinely and softly

[Zack-Bann]

“If you think that’s all it takes for me to stop loving you you’re mistaken.
I’ll be in the other room when you wanna talk about it”

[Nikki1989]

Gently but firmly insist on having a conversation.

[IslaTheWitch]

let's talk or break up