Do you think there are more incels than alpha widows?

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Incel: Ugly and/or short and/or autistic dudes who are angry they can’t have an intimate relationship with a conventionally attractive woman or women. I think they apparently haven’t had sex either I’m not sure if they count themselves as an incel if they’ve had at least one relationship, but I do know they don’t count prostitutes.

Alpha widow: A depressed young woman who is still in a bad way emotionally as a result of either a break up or after being used by a (or multiple) handsome popular guy (probably tall and handsome, what these youngsters consider alpha). He was a guy most young women her age want. Now she’s bitter and jaded about men in general.

which is more prevalent in the US?

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Incels are usually below average and have poor social skills and are bitter due to bullying and social ostracizing. Average dudes may get a average girl but theyre too busy fawning over and hookuping with hot guys looking for a easy hook up. Then there's the handsome and beautiful men n women that were made to reproduce effectively. Im 'incel' but i also have never tried dating or talking to women as they make their view of me very well known 'eww gross disgusting or any gay slur' , im more celibate because if gay i choose not to act on those actions. Hopefully there is a Heaven because my life is hell on earth

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Jesus bro, go to Thailand. You’re obviously not gay just bitter and autistic. Damn, you down bad. Pray bro, go to church l.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

i am not autistic i haven't been diagnosed as such. Wtf would I travel to thailand im not into Asians

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Well you admit to not having luck with women but you’re face isn’t that bad.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

so you're suggesting to me that trans women is my best bet? Explains why when i used tinder i only got bots or mtf matches lol. No its not THAT bad but its just bad enough. Women are highly selective and I do not come close to qualifying as a romantic or sexual interest

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Go back to croatia then, seriously, or start asking women out in person. I know the apps are fucked up, after my divorce I was cat fished by overweight women a lot, I added an inch to my height with a simple trick called a lie and actually got 7s.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Whats ur height? Im 6'1 or '2. I dont use those apps anymore i dont need to be reminded

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

6 foot lied to say 6”1, im very fit and very muscular at 200 so it didn’t matter if they ever noticed

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

It was surprising because I had more luck in the early days of online dating before my marriage, so yeah I know its crazy out there

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Damn bro, you’re a harsh reminder that its a waste of time, I’m in a relationship now…but I know with my age in this day and age its deuces, only thing out there for us is catfish if you ain't rich af and tall af basically

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Dude, are you at least getting catfished, like showing up and she’s 180+ lbs or something?

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

i dont date, use their apps or even put myself out there because i know im not good enough. All my interactions with women go something like this...

Me out in public
Girl looks at me says "f*gg*t, queer, disgusting or ewww" or laugh when they look at me
End of interaction

I dont speak to girls and they only insult me and then go about their day. Everytime.

Thats my life, most can't relate let alone believe this even happens as most dudes dont get women publicly insulting them.

[Anonymous]

Probably incels. Because while alpha women exist and probably in bigger numbers. Regardless of how bitter/jaded they get alpha widows are always ready to make another bad decision. They just never stop whining about those bad decisions.😆

[Anonymous]

Incels like the sad, bitter and very delusional 45 plus blue anon clearly demonstrated.

[LazerBean]

Fortunately, there are probably much more white trash women than there are incels.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

There are a lot of blacks and Latinas and Asians who are depressed delusional entitled alpha widows too.

[LazerBean]

True

[Zack-Bann]

I think both groups are loud minorities who ended up trending online so now many more people identify as either one


The truth is: if you log off the internet you’ll see that people still go out, date, break up, get married…
Nothing’s really changed

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

True, I know of a few dudes in their late 20s early 30s and a few young women in their 20s that both would be in relationships if they were the same age as they are now 15 ago. Why? Simply because they are attractive.

[Zack-Bann]

But you see that’s still the internet talking
This obsession with how different life is for attractive people

Yeah you’re right it’s probably not identical but success stories and failures stories in relationships happen every day there’s no correlation

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

I asked my parents and other older family members and neighbors, they said seeing attractive women in their 20s not dating and polite attractive men with money in their late 20s also single and not even interested in women or dating were both extremely rare back then.

From what I remember of the early 2,000s-2010 I surmise they are right.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

They said they’d be the talk of the town until they just disappeared or got hitched

[IslaTheWitch]

none of them exists... so I don't care :D

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

I bet you’re a great mother

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

They exist, you just called them creeps losers and nerds in your day. The women were just called prudes or shut-ins or hags.