Why are my first dates failing?

[Anonymous]

Not to be arrogant but I’m a conventionally attractive 26f. I’ve had several first dates but I don’t hear from the guys after. They were fun dates and they think I’m attractive. This never happened to me because I’ve had successful first dates in the past.

[Anonymous]

It is possible they weren't as successful as YOU think.

But as far as to the "why" that could be thousand reasons. Not all having to do directly with you.

I can tell you speaking for myself. Most dates end with the first date. Because I need to feel that she's actually interested in a second. And a lot of that is determined by the interest she shows towards me. Asking questions, asking follow up questions. If not she comes I f as narcissistic. And yes I know she could be nervous. But that's a HER problem. She needs to learn to get over that. No one's going to bite her (well, maybe if she asks nicely😆).

[NicholasRedone]

Maybe date someone that does things you like : find a male barista, find a waiter, find a blue collar worker, ask the number for a worker when it's quiet somewhere 😆🥳🌹

[PaleDale]

For a lot of people there needs to be a connection for things to click.

[slatyb]

Where did you meet them?

[Asker]

Online dating but I’ve mostly had success with it. I don’t know what’s going on

[nawtee_me]

Where are you going on your first dates?