Why does a cheater never forgets his first love no matter how many other girls he slept with after her?

[Anonymous]

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Why he always want to run back to his first?

[Summeroflove]

Well because it was the first time even people who have negative personality traits have attachments and emotions. Some people are just completely cold but not everyone is black and white.

Some people still do care and feel bad about something but they just become so addicted to sex that when they get bored in a relationship they need the next thing.

[Asker]

But doesn't that be toxic to his first girl if she takes him back? He can never be trusted right? So why should she take him back?

[Summeroflove]

Oh I’m not saying he can be trusted. I’m just saying things are probably sentimental being his first tiem and first experience

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I agree that some people aren’t trustworthy

[ohsheeT]

That is a con. It's a lie. And it's usually told by the first guy because he's still trying to get sir. Because it's just another challenge

he's h oing t o lie to her tell her what she wants to hear. What's better than to get a girl.. cheat.. with another girl... first girl dumps him ..
Then meet up a guy say my first live never for get you. Girl falls for it... get back together and another girl comes in to the picture.. he's gone and also because it's puppy love

[missindiana93]

Maybe because he actually loved her and fucked up in the end.

[Asker]

Yeah. But that's hurtful to see him can't let go of his first love and unable to move on with any other girl even if he tried to by sleeping with other girls but it couldn't satisfy him as much as his first love.

[Woody077]

But does anybody really forget their first love?

[Asker]

@Woody077 I guess they don't. I seen many people stick on their exes even if their ex isn't so attractive. This is especially true for first love

[Anonymous]

Probably because cheaters are people to. They might be highly selfish people, but they're still people.

I always liked the story of Hugh Hefner. He had a first love of a woman named Mildred Williams that rejected him. And that turned him into the person he became. From then on no woman would ever have his heart again. Oh he'd go on to marry a few times. But he would always be in control and when he was done with them he was done.

It fascinates me because it always made me wonder what exactly Hugh was after. Was he always trying to replace that lost love in a very toxic way. Or was he just out for a good time and didn't care who he hurt along the way. I mean all those women were trash. C'mon they took thier clothes off for money and fame. But they were still human beings. If he hated women, how could he even pretend to like them? So I don't think he hated women.

[Asker]

He may have lust them without love

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but that's an empty existence. I'm not saying just isn't good for a night, or a few nights. But it's not something you can build a fulfilling life on.

[Asker]

Yeah

[Woody077]

My first love will always be remembered. We are still friends. She is married and has a family. But that does not mean Im still stuck on her. A first love is special. You just start to figure out what love really is. For me I was a young teenager.

[jahaims]

Real life isn't a movie

[MasterKS]

who told you this myth?

[Asker]

Not a myth. Truth

[MasterKS]

@asker you believe good for you.

[Asker]

It actually happened with someone

[MasterKS]

@asker good for him or her.

[wkhan_87]

Don't trust cheaters