Wtf happened for this girl to just ghost me?

[Nashvilledude88]

I met a girl on tinder, we met up had a great date, not my opinion only, she said I was attractive, we got drinks talked for a few hours then she said let’s go get food after we did got sandwiches at her fav place, we talked a bit more then we made out in my car in the parking lot, said I was good kisser, she was too. She said she had fun, and agreed another date over text then I wake up text her good morning how are you but I see she unmatched me on tinder and pretty much blocked me on text. I know this happens a lot heard a lot of stories like this. But wtf happened for her to just ghost me like this, after such a great date with good chemistry.

[hahahmm]

If she kissed you on the first date she kisses every guy on the first date. If she told you to take her to her favorite place, she has gotten free meals there like 3x/week for ages. I heard these women on online dating sites had 400-500 men in their DMs a few years back. And a lot of those guys had money (luxury car, boats, or whatever) inflating these women's egos to epic proportions. If she's in that state... imagine a lioness hunting food in the wild. The real meal is the big game. The snack is the little game. You were a snack, bro.

In my experience (as a guy most women say looks great), women aren't quick to tell a guy that. Maybe it's just a line she uses -- whether you look good or not.

You looking for long term serious or just fun? If you're looking for the real deal, get off these dating sites. I met my wife in more of a shared hobby/business situation. We hit it off and started talking a lot. I probably would have had to have 550 failed online dates to find a woman even half as good as her for serious.

[Nashvilledude88]

Happy for you man! I don't know I think she assumed after that I just wanted to fuck and got that impression. I don't know maybe she was testing me

[hahahmm]

@Nashvilledude88 I could be wrong but I kind of doubt she would have made out with you if she was practically a nun. Or even want to be in a situation where you buy her a meal when for all she knows things won't work out. The women who are careful tend not to want free meals that early on --- although I have limited data to go on as I actively avoided most women who seemed over the top easy.

[Stevepro68]

Sometimes you did something you have no Idea what the trigger was. Sometimes they aren't interested but just seeing where it goes. Sometimes you are the other guy and she decides to stick with her current husband boyfriend. It doesn't matter I know people are obsessed with knowing why and trying to to fix themselves. But sometimes it's them and not you and you can't fix that.

[NoDecision]

Sounds like it wasn't as good as she thought after mulling it over. Or maybe you did something she didn't like but she didn't want to make a big scene over it. Like for instance, grabbing boobs or ass? I wouldn't worry about it. You know that you can't win them all. You can't take rejections in dating seriously. Just move on and don't look back wondering what you did, because you either know or have no clue.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well, the way I see it is either she changed her mind or was lying about what she complimented you on. Its also possible she was looking for a free meal. That's been known to happen.

[Nashvilledude88]

Yea I know it happens lol but I was about to go home after the drinks when she said let’s go get sandwiches and I was like ok. She even offered to buy. I mean im not hung up on it but it’s just weird. I think something was off about her anyways she told me personal stuff on the first date about her being SA multiple times and this that her ex broke her nose

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sounds like you may have avoided some walking red flags. That's not really first date material there.

[Abbycado]

She could have lied just to get through the date. That or someone else popped up that she liked more. Sucks, but could be the truth.

[Nashvilledude88]

Yes but we didn’t need to get food after first we just went to a bar. Like she could have just gone home after. So it’s a little surprising but whatever I guess

[Abbycado]

Yeah, it is a "whatever" type of moment.

[Nikki1989]

You took your chances with Tinder. Live and learn.

[RageBabe]

The majority of people on "Tinder" aren't serious.

[missindiana93]

Scared of feelings, maybe trauma from being cheated on. Etc.

[Nashvilledude88]

Or she was lying the whole time lol

[missindiana93]

That also. Lol

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Some people are good at faking chemistry and might of just been using you for a free meal

[Anonymous]

I don't know ghosting happens to me all the time.