What’s with young guys wanting older women?

Question

I’m currently having a spicy fling with a 20 year old. I was out with my niece and her college friends and he pulled me on the dance floor. The next weekend we went on a date and it starting getting extra spicy 🌶️ 🥵 now that I think about it out it I get hit on by my 20 something’s than guys my own age.. what’s up with that?

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

Possibility's bellow.

1. Mommy issues no point beating around the bush.

2. Some men genuinely find older woman more attractive physically.

3. Men that don't want kids feel... safer with older partners.

4. Some men actually like mature woman. Older woman are often more confidant, more intelligent and have more realistic expectations because they have enough life experience to see the world the way it is. I'd go out with an older woman because I like to learn things and want a partner that helps me grow every day instead of going into stagnation.

5. They in general are more likely to have their shit together.

6. They're often more willing to go on a date Dutch sometimes they even pay which frankly is a massive burden off of a younger mans wallet because he probably doesn't have his own savings or a good job yet.

7. They often make for deeper conversations and are more down to earth.

8. In my experience they're more open to new experiences than younger woman. (I'm referring to sharing hobbies not bedroom activities.)

9. Older woman typically know what they're doing in bed and are more "engaged".

10. They are more likely to take initiative or a lead on something.

11. They're often better communicators in terms of having proper discussions and addressing problems in the relationship.

12. They're less likely to cheat and more likely to be finding something serious.

13. If they aren't looking for something serious, they pretty much tend to make it known right away instead of stringing you along.

14. You could argue this ties into mommy issues, but I would argue it's separate under certain circumstances but older woman are also often more nurturing and thus more affectionate.

15. Older woman don't usually demean or make younger men feel inferior. In fact, from the cases I've heard, a lot of guys said the relationship gave them a massive ego boost.

16. Older women are more likely to try and push you to do better in productive ways although I feel like this kind of ties into 14 and 15 but I would make the distinction personally.

These are just off the top of my head and obviously this is oversimplified but these are themes that are common in relationships where younger men get involved with older woman.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

It’s best of both worlds when the older woman in question is as hot as the young one

You were 20 once.
When you would see a guy your age back then, how soon before people in both your lives started pressuring you into putting labels on it
And telling not to waste your time with a “spicy fling”

But now you’re well established, you got a house and an a kid who’s an adult
But circumstances made you single so a spicy fling is more than deserved, it’s recommended

As for him no one is gonna ask him to “make an honest woman out of you” so he gets guilt free with a partner who’s enjoying it just as much

I personally wonder what’s with young guys who DONT want older women
(Except the ones hell bent on building a family and taking on life as a power couple)

alice55 · Accepted Answer

they just want sex and think older women are more "loose" more open minded, more open to try find compared to girls their age and also they think girls their age act too much like princess but it's only sex they want and once do not do anything they want they go and insult you for your age.

ohsheeT · Answer

Because there are no games hopefully she know what she's do.. because want to experience the touch the passion the seduction of an older women...

And then there is the pleasing them
When you can make her feel something that no man has made her feel before
And the the guy is going to make it all about her. No. matter what they do

Avicenna · Answer

It's harder for guys his age to get women their age (harder, obviously not impossible) and guys outnumber women at age 20. So if a guy in that situation wants great pussy, hot women your age are perfect.

LiamS95 · Answer

Well for one thing you still have a fairly young looking sexy body and you still look younger then your posted 40.

HungTexan · Answer

Young guys are intrigued by older hot women because they don’t exhibit the same behavior as some immature girls their same age.

bowenw · Answer

Older women are hot to younger guys and have interesting things to talk about, plus experienced in the bedroom.

oldpigg · Answer

I don't like old women, men who look for old women look for them because they are easier.

Vegasrunner · Answer

More of anomaly most men prefer woman ages 18-24. He probably reached out to you because he can't get better.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

I've always found mature women more attractive plus theyre better at sex, women my age never liked me and always saw me as more youthful than my actual age. Im still virgin at 30 so neither group likes me infact they love to pass judgment on me

Smile456 · Answer

Just speaking for myself, I saw a Mom with her son and she was wearing an extreme bikini, I got hard but I did try to hide it

PaleDale · Answer

Age is a state of mind. Plenty of older women are beautiful with great figures and are very very spicy 🔥 Younger guys are smitten 🥰

jahaims · Answer

They just want sex and fucking a ran through women is easier

LiamJHayden · Answer

The older guys are hitting on young women or have given up and are home watching television.

DecentLovelyMan · Answer

Would you date a 33 y. o man?:)

Wise4myage · Answer

Older women are more experienced in bed.

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

You like it don’t you?

Gaylordslav · Answer

whats with older women preying on young men?

princeofromance · Answer

Do any desire to date younger men?

Abdul17w · Answer

It's just a fetish

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