Do men really want younger women?

[Summeroflove]

[fartingspinster]

Wow... this guy's video is horrible. I tried my best to watch it to the end, but just couldnt get past 1/3.
Men want to have a higher body count but dont like it when a female does... are you all having sex with the same female pool and then feel like when you are ready to settle down, you can go to the fishtank of virgins and young guppies to be-wife? Make it make sense... the math isn't mathing.

I love how he blames the females for how the dating world is right now 😂 promiscuity and the sexual revolution is what has created this disaster. Sex is not longer a hush hush topic, both females and males were given the freedom to have sex with as many people and in very different ways. Swingers for married couples etc.
Some good came out of the no shame game with sex, but if you have no morals then a lot of bad comes out of it too.

Anyway- and the whole female depending on men "things were so much better"? From a man's pov maybe yeah... from a females pov? We left the dark age of marital enslavement and luck of the draw as to whether your spouse was going to be a good husband or a drunkard, wife beating cheater. And you couldn't do anything about it, because a divorcee was like societal leprosy and you had no way of making a decent amount of income to sustain yourself.

If anything, its showed how men need to step it up and value females more and stop being entitled that bare minimum should get you an equal partner making income a housewife.

Will you be an equal partner making income build a house or be a landscaper or mechanic for all the household issues? (Obviously one of these would be fair... but like a housewife technically does 3 jobs in one 🤷‍♀️)

I didn't even answer your question... but this video got me going

[blackeagle007]

He only asked if men are attracted younger, that’s it. I haven’t watched the video by the way. Not interested

[fartingspinster]

If you read my entire comment I addressed that. Thanks for pointing it out so thag it has the stamp of male official

[blackeagle007]

I just now watched that video. I won’t comment. But to our defense, women dig younger guys too. Everyone wants sex with best looking people. Women not as visual? Why am I single then? Why is it hard for guys to meet women on a dating site. Explain that

[Summeroflove]

I agree men who have a lot of sex wantinf a woman whose a virgin….. is the same kind of hypocrite as a woman who picks bad men but wants a good man to save her form her choices and see past her past but also have his life together.

It just doesn’t work like that

[Summeroflove]

But it’s not all men and it’s not all women. Just hypocrites and narcissists who hold people to standards they never hold themselves to. Then wonder why the only women they find are train wrecks or pretending to be someone. They’re not.

Nobodt decent wante that

[fartingspinster]

@summeroflove Exactly, there are a lot of men/women wanting a serious relationship and will put in the effort and make each other priority. aren't focused on status or any sort of body count.

And thats very true - hypocrites and narcissists... run away from both of them 😂

@blackeagle007
There's no reason for you to defend this video... Men have been choosing younger wives and putting this label of "you expire at 30" for eons. When the playing field is equal now (which was partly because these same men wanted more ass and pussy so why not give females more freedom sexually and it won't be so hard to get it?) females are faulted for doing the same thing as men.
If men dont like the reflection of the very mirror they created... I dont really know what else to say.

Who said females aren't visual? We are entering an age where females have been devalued and over valued by men for looks, you think that will create a generation of females that will overlook the physicality of men when men are constantly showing them and telling them that looks matter?

How many decades have females been sexualized to sell product? The world is priming females to be a certain way and only recently are men feeling the same pressures and they are whining because they feel less than. The shoe hurts doesn't it?

And dating sites are just virtual magazines flipping the pages... used for one night stands, lonely people and mental health illnesses. Do yourself a favor and just interact in clubs or hobbies, its easier that way.

Also... maybe try swiping on a girl you'd never really think is your type. You dont know, maybe her personality is what you need and you'll learn to love her looks

[fartingspinster]

Social clubs (not the dj kind lol)

[blackeagle007]

And ur a total feminist. The birth rate in this country is down because women treat men badly. Feminist groups are a big reason. I’m lectured on looks? You obviously never seen who I dated. Rest of the girls stopped giving me a chance because of my looks. I thinks are more important to women. Women are programmed to be highly picky and snooty.

[Summeroflove]

You’re 100 percent correct. Many people have double standards who are narcissistic one of many examples is they they want someone who can over look their flaws and imperfections while expecting them to be perfect. They want someone whose perfect in every way.

[Summeroflove]

The ones who put this information out are men who see women as disposable. They wonder why only narcissists who see them as disposable would want them.

Someone with a genuine heart wants a love that’s going to last. Not someone whose going to cheat on them and dump them when they get old.

[fartingspinster]

@blackeagle007
You asked me to explain, I did...
And yes, a proud feminist, why wouldn't I want to support females?

You sound like you dont respect females and think all are out to get you. Just because some females have their own standards, dont take it personally. I dont think its because of looks... you might be exuding a rather bitter and sour personality.

[Summeroflove]

The only thing with many feminists (not all per say) is that many claim to be for women but stab not only women they disagree with in the back but one another.

Many also don’t care when men are victims of discrimination. As well as cry sexism to get out of trouble. Some want to be hired because they are a woman not because of merit. Then cry wolf about sexism even if they are lazy and/or incompetent.

They make other competent women look bad as well as when there is legit cases of sex discrimination it’s not taken as seriously because so many people cry it.

[fartingspinster]

Yeah thats a sad truth.
Nothing in this world doesn't come without distortions. Even Marxism got distorted by communists.

And then you have the type of feminists that are using their own vaginal yeast for bread making or period blood for god knows what.
It gets out of hand. People are forgetting what true feminism was about, and it really frustrates me.
Such a beautiful concept, twisted and just another form of ammunition for manipulators

[Summeroflove]

Yeah there is the extremes. What’s why so many people have been leaving the Democratic Party because it’s just gone too far.

But I agree. There is the abortion extremists. There is the people who play the victim and use being a woman to just cry sexism. People who have their minds in the gutter and make everything into something sexual that isn’t. That hurts not only people falsely accused of sexual harassment but real victims of ir as well.

[Summeroflove]

I agree women should have the right to vote. To work among other things. If a woman wants to marry and stay home that’s fine too so long as she can find a man to marry. Those marriages hardly work because people don’t know how they’re supposed to work but that’s another story altogether.

A lot of people just get pushed out of a party that is going harder and harder to the left. To where everyone’s a right wing extremist or you don’t agree with everything they don

So eventually it reaches a point where most
So called right wingers are very tolerant as well as can disagree with one another but still break bread at the end of the day.

[fartingspinster]

Preach! 😂

[blackeagle007]

A woman dating expert blames feminism for why men no longer approach women. Face it, you hate men. You feminist feel you need to prove stuff and are entitled princesses

[blackeagle007]

Women should the same, swiping the guy that maybe not her type but his personality could shine. Sorry young lady you aren’t better than me.

[fartingspinster]

I'm done talking to you.
So much bitterness and anger... I have no interest in that. Byyyyeee

[blackeagle007]

I’m blocking you. You’re not a real woman

[fartingspinster]

Thank you - im too much woman for you apparently 😂😂

[nawtee_me]

@fartingspinster I like your analogy, unless men are having sex with other men then how can a woman keep her body count down? To me, I have a past and would think most women do too.

[fartingspinster]

Thank you :)
Ahahha exactly!
Yeah, and honestly - just being honest about the past and not feeling any inferiority or superiority is key... how can you be intimate and vulnerable with someone if you bring ego into the bedroom?

[DishLady]

Yeah, older guys seem to want the younger gals (for the "final call to baby making" in some instances, or simply to feel like a man to a gullible woman in other instances... hello sugarbaby). Exhibit A: In an answer to this question some cowardly anon claimed all older women are terrible people...

However by way of a very odd little balancing of the scales, younger guys seem to want older gals (for the experience or because they're avoiding the plague of dating within their generation). Exhibit B: Looking on the zillions of posts indicating that younger women (20s-30s) are all "crazy".

So that means the only sane females haven't been born yet... Ergo REALLY younger women will be trending shortly. Please hold for about 20 years.

[AverageGuyyy]

I (35m) don't care if she is 22 or 29, but I would be hesitant when dating girls over 30, especially over 33 35.

The reason for that is that is that they usually want to rush me into things like living together, marrying and having kids. While I do want those things, I want to have some time with her (at least a year) so I can measure her craziness level and not be rushed into something that may turn out to be the biggest mistake of my life.

That's exactly what almost happened with my last girlfriend and she was 33. She hid her real self for like 8 months and then released all the crazy demons once she felt comfortable doing so. Things like sending 30 messages while I'm taking an afternoon nap, deleting them all before I wake up saying "I realized I'm talking to myself", then blaming me for being with another woman. She started demanding going through my phone for no reason, then getting crazy over flirts that were months before we started dating... Just a few days ago I found a video where I was filming all around and inside my car just to prove her I'm alone lol. And we know each other since high school, I'm 100% sure she wasn't like that when she was younger.

It's just that statistically speaking the odds for this happening with a younger woman are much smaller. Also they are prettier which is a bonus, but that's not the most important thing for me at this point. But I need to be at least little bit attracted to her, and women over 35 usually look like aunties to me, no sexual drive whatsoever.

[Finchie40]

For the most part yes but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t be interested in a girl his age or older either Most of us men are very visual when it comes to seeing a beautiful girl , so if she is beautiful to our eyes , we really don’t care how old she is , as long as she is of legal age of consent. Me personally dates younger an older girls’ cuz age doesn't really matter to me , the chemistry and connection is what matters

[Avicenna]

Yes- in my case that means women in their 30s

[Kelley1]

When I am approached by men around age 40, typically their first question is, "Do you like older men?" I reply, "No, because you are twice my age. Do you like women twice your age?" Not a single man wanted a woman twice his age. It is not a woman's money or position that men are interested in. Instead, men are attracted to youth, beauty, and fertility, and all three decline with age.

Charts from the book "Dataclysm"

[Summeroflove]

I mean true to a extent but not all
Men are the same

[Kelley1]

Are you claiming that exceptions make the rule?

[HawkPerception]

It doesn't change. Women generally look best in their early 20s. It's an unspoken fact shared by all men. Just because we age doesn't change that fact.

Women have a biological clock, but men do not... not really. And it's a fact that women are attracted to older men than themselves. It's a dominant submissive dynamic in relationships. Men generally prefer smaller, shorter, weaker, younger, and even less intelligent women than themselves, whereas women generally prefer bigger, taller, stronger, older, and even more intelligent men than themselves. Women that are honest with themselves and are okay going against modern societal standards are okay with larger gaps than others.

I'm not saying all women are inherently like this, but more than you think would be completely fine with it. Henry Cavill is 41 years old and I can promise you there are tons of girls in their 20s and even teenagers that would love to date him. It all depends on the guy and if he's a successful and attractive man. Henry Cavill definitely has the 6-6-6 factor

[Off_Jack]

@Kelley1 If I told you that I jerk off to 80 year old women, then would you like me?

[Kelley1]

@HawkPerception Women my age are not interested in 40-year-old men. Pointing out that women prefer movie stars to average men not change that fact.

[Summeroflove]

No but I’m saying not everyone is anything. Every person is very different

[Summeroflove]

That’s true too some women pick 40 year old men. Not to say some don’t build a genuine connection but many are more looking for money and a easy ride in life. Many of the men power and control. Never tends to end well if not done for the right reaosns. But if both person are honest with one another that’s one thing

[Summeroflove]

@HawkPerception okay but looks aren’t everything. There are people who look good because they focus so much time fixing themselves up on the outside. But inside are trash that will grow old, fat, and naggy.

[Summeroflove]

@Off_Jack you’re a troll

[blackeagle007]

Agreed

[MisterWack]

Men want women that respect them, are loyal, are mature, are thoughtful, are sweet, good listeners, someone to turn to when others pushed them away, and a beacon of honesty & transparency just as he would be to her.

I really doubt age has something to do with it.

[Bobbyjudy]

Lol this guy looks like a kid and you can tell he has a lot of growing to do he has a few points but a real man doesn't want a child. Which is what a 20 year old is to a real man. He doesn't care to try to do the child like things that she does. Pretty is not top priority to a real man period. And to be honest young girls have yet to learn much about real intimacy. he wouldn't know this because he is still a kid. they have nothing in common with them and a 20 year old kid unless you yourself are immature. no one wants a woman to change if he has the right woman from the beginning

[Kelley1]

The fact is you have no chance with young women. Since you can't have them, you claim you don't want them. That the same argument that people without money make when they claim they are not interested in money.

[alice55]

With his head he should be happy if one single woman look at his direction XD

But it depend majority of couple actually have the same age in general so there's no real younger / older preference the preference is usually someone who's in the same age range. Those that prefer younger women do it cause theyre manipulator usually.

[IslaTheWitch]

some do, some don't... is it so hard to understand that people are different and have different preferences?

[Nikki1989]

Seems that way, but many men can give out creep vibes if the women are too young.

[Summeroflove]

Underage I agree.

[Summeroflove]

But many older women like younger men as well. As well as some men do like women older then themselves as well.

It was just a video I found. Don’t necessarily agree witn it as all men are different.

[NicholasRedone]

I'm 30 - and for a few years now, no it's not related to @purplepoppy yet coincidentally I think at my age I'd suit a woman who's either 24 (I like the number or the year 2024 was decent enough) or a woman who's maybe, 20? 21? Shrug 😂

[RedThread]

It depends on how young or how old for me. I like to be with someone with similar maturity levels and that's hard to find when there's too much of an age gap.

[Wayneg89]

Age isn't something I actively pursue. Like I'm not like "oh I gotta have me a 23 year old specifically". Generally I like a couple years younger but my dating range is about /- 10 years, most of which have been in the -1 to -5 range.

[Anonymous]

advertisements that use women to target men into buying their products tend to display younger women over older women

even most protagonist fictional female characters tend to be younger women too

[Chargirllll]

Yes it was always like that. When I was 18 I was having sex with a 45 year old

[Summeroflove]

And as you get older you’ll start loving the stamina and how the younger men make you feel young again. As well as….. it works.

It sounds weird but a lot of times it flip flops

[Jay-_-]

🤨🤔

[ProbablyClueless]

I find younger people exhausting in general. I'd prefer not to date a woman who was younger than me by 5 years.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

My dad, married an "older" woman, whatever that means to you, i dk, but, it proves, age doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

Personally no, I prefer older women than myself if I was still dating

[Nerdvana]

I don't care about age, I care about maturity.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Twenty-one to forty-five in my case. I've NEVER been into the old broads !!!

[Anonymous]

No. But most single older women are terrible people. So guys are relegated to looking for younger.

[fish5505_87]

He seems too young to be offering up this opinion!

[Anonymous]

I think women over 35 in general are repulsive.

[Anonymous]

Mostly true, majority of us want younger women.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Who wouldn't want a trophy wife lol

[Valdemort]

Some do, some don't.

[oldpigg]

Old women are not attractive.

[Anonymous]

Yes certainly they are

[DrPepper12]

Healthy & fertile. It's evolution at work.

[RedInnocent69]

Sometimes. They are pretty cute

[msc545]

Men age like wine. Women age like milk.

[Melkom]

I prefer same age or younger two years maximum

[slatyb]

Yes, we do.

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[ellen27]

Yes 100%

[Anonymous]

Yes.