I'm a 31 year old virgin woman who never dated or married anyone... I feel if there were a 21 year old virgin girl who never dated/married anyone I think the man who pick her over me cause of her age?
If you were to describe a red-flag-woman, she'd be a 31 year-old virgin who never dated. Obviously, I don't know you, but the clear questions are why do you choose to not date? Are you not interested in sex? Most guys want to have an emotional AND a physical relationship.
We're not making a choice that women over X age are too old. We look at the whole package, age is one component. I wouldn't hesitate to date an interesting woman who's 10 years older than I am.
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Asker+1 yIm saving my virginity for a guy who doesn't want to have kids and stay committed to that and spend the rest of life with me.. Is that okay?
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Why have you never dated? Why not and explain that you don't want kids... I'm assuming that you're from a western country where people "marry for love". Maybe in your culture there's a different tradition.
It isn't that guys prefer younger women, where I'm from, in the US, we prefer women who engage with us. Women who discuss what they want.
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2.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Umm you do realise your literal evidence of that not been true? Because at some point you was a 21 year old virgin girl who never dated/married anyone.
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Asker+1 yI'm 31 and a virgin
Asker+1 yI didn't get your answer to my post.
Asker+1 yI decided at a very young age that I didn't want kids and I discided to stay a virgin and find a guy who also doesn't want kids but I bumped into guys who really wanted kids and I didn't.. I'm saving myself for a guy who can stay committed to me without children...
Asker+1 ySo my options are limited cause I don't want kids?
Not all men.. Men have different preferences. There are guys, who will prefer younger than them, whereas others will prefer someone more mature and experienced. Also, youth doesn't equate attractiveness. There are some 31 year old women, who are attractive, fit and youthful
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550 opinions shared on Other topic. There are plenty of men who have high morals and want women their own age.
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1 yNot all men no as long as a woman’s not over child bearing years. People who say “all men” or “all women” pester me because sometimes when someone says what men want I just chuckle shaking my head.
What matters is your heart not everyone will be into you focus on quality over quantity.
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+1 yNot true. I would pick YOU! Because we're actually from the same generation, so we would have more in common.
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@Asker Don't listen to "Lalabee.". She's a troll. She made a new account just to come on here and attack you, and then she deleted her account.
Asker+1 yYeah I saw that...
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Yeah. Don't pay her any mind, hon.
Asker+1 yThanks for your answers and opinions to my post, you were very helpful. Have a good day.
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You're welcome! You, too!
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+1 yI think it's supposed to be that way, like the bee never goes to the dead flowers and rarely goes to the withered ones. We're just wired that way because the older a woman gets, the less likely she'll be to have an kids. But, some guys like older women! Have you ever seen, "Harold & Maude"? She was 50 or 60 years older than him!! We're SUPPOSED to be fruitful and multiply but you can't BE fruitful if the woman can't multiply anymore.
00 Reply They won't choose the 21 year old because of her age it's because you're old and washed up and boring, they probably love her and you look dumb for a old 31 year old hating on a 21 year old for her age, get a job and move on with your life instead of always being on these forms, bitching about bullshit, you're pathetic, because it doesn't matter and no one cares you're just a dumbass
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@Lalabee Why are you being so hateful?
I find it hard to believe a 31 years old virgin woman exists, but I'm a 42 years old virgin man, so maybe you do exist.
PM me, maybe we can talk sometime. :).
00 ReplyIt is rare for things to be so absolute, as in “all men.” But men will generally, on average, prefer a woman who is a bit younger than them. This is revealed preference.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Other topic. For the most part it is true. 38 year old guy might be interested...
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Asker+1 yInterested in who?
Asker+1 yOhh okay... What about a 40+ year old guy would he be interested?
Asker+1 y31 or the 21?
Asker+1 yThe guy I like is 41
Asker+1 yWe have 11 years in age gap is that fine? But I don't want kids
Asker+1 yAnother question, do all men prefer to have kids?
Asker+1 yWill that be a problem for me since I'm not committed to having kids? I'm saving my virginity to a guy who doesn't want kids and want him to stay committed to that and spend the rest of his life with me..
Asker+1 yHow about a guy in his mid to late thirties?
Asker+1 yAm I screwed?
Men tend to prefer a virgin over a non-virgin, men also tend to prefer young over old.
00 ReplyOnly to a certain point. Youth in women is only more attractive in women down to the mid-twenties.
00 ReplyThere's more that goes into it than just age. I don't think you should worry
00 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Not necessarily, a guy in his 40s or 50s might well prefer you to the 21 year old
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Other topic. That thinking is why you are in the position you are.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yFor the most part, when a woman can't find the men they want, it's because they do not desire the ones that want them.
00 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Other topic. we like younger women. but for me anyone that is kind, generous with her self , and pretty is cool. i’d like to have a virgin again.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI think you should make ANOTHER anonymous question asking this. 🤣
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Asker+1 yI'm guessing that too. Its funny and silly but when life gets confusing gag can give pretty good answers for your questions..
+1 yYup, men that are in 30s and above want women below 30
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+1 yOf course not.
00 ReplyI don't for well, obvious reasons.
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Asker+1 yCause your 14 years old? Lol
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+1 yMany do, personally no
00 Reply 3.7K opinions shared on Other topic. If she was better looking - yes!
00 ReplyMy wife is 2 years older
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMost, not all.
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+1 yUsually. Not all but many of us do
00 Reply 3.5K opinions shared on Other topic. Yeah
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