Would u ever ask somebody out infront of their friends or family?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i would die of embarrassment if anyone did. so please dont.

[Shiprex]

In front of friends I don't think would be cruel as then you can see if she's confident and not immature. Family maybe not because that's gonna stick with them for some time.
I say this even though I proposed to my wife when she was with her cousin with about 20 team mates after we'd played a game of rugby in front of about 200 spectators. That went well, lol after her cousin explained wtf was going on. He was more excited than she was though.

[Summeroflove]

I mean if you like someone well enough and it may be the only time you see them go for it, but I would rather ask them when they’re alone.

[Spencer10]

Probably not. That would really put them in a spot and potentially make them very uncomfortable.

[David318578]

Depends on the situation, if I knew you then no I would wait for more ideal time. If I just meet you at a bar or game or whatever, then I'm going to ask you out. Got to shoot your shot when you have the chance

[chocolatetwopointo]

even if they’re with family or friends?

[David318578]

Of course, if it's in a situation where I will probably never see her again, then you got to ask.

[chocolatetwopointo]

even if ur gna embarrass her and put her on the spot? is that not selfish at all to u?

[David318578]

If you are with your family I could tell you I think your beautiful and would like to take you out and give you my number, so you are not on the spot, you can call me if you want, or throw it away.

[chocolatetwopointo]

still putting them on the spot tho

[David318578]

Not as much because I'm not looking for her to answer me, me asking her if she wants to go out, or can I get your number, if forcing you into a awkward dialogue is putting you on the spot for an answer.
Vs
Me saying "I think your beautiful and I would like to take you out sometime, here is my number and if your interested call me" and then walk away.
You are much less on the spot because you don't have to do anything

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok sure whatever u say

[David318578]

No problem, glad I could help set you straight. It takes real maturity to reach out for help and then be humble when getting advice and help. It's shows growth, I'm proud of you!

[chocolatetwopointo]

huh what r u on ab now? i dont ask people out, never have never will.

[David318578]

I know you need the guy to ask you out.

[chocolatetwopointo]

rather not, since i dont date

[David318578]

Not yet, but you're a pretty girl, eventually the right guy will ask you out.

[David318578]

We just have to work on that personality of yours to take some of the bite out of it so the guy will stick around! But we have time lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no. im gna focus on my career.

[David318578]

Should always be focusing on your career, which as a teenager that's getting good grades in highschool. But you seem like a smart girl.. at least a smart ass lol but I have faith in you being able to handle 2 things at once.
Don't you girls always brag about the ability to multitask? If guys can handle school and dating why can't girls?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah well i wanna be a lawyer its a lot of work. and i can't multitask like that and i js dont like company.

[masterSir]

I did with my wife in front of her best friend. Which happens to be my sister.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sure! If I felt I was presentable.

[Agape93]

Yeap and I have

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[Agape93]

Because I wanted to date her. Got rejected 🤷‍♀️ lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

was she with her friends or family?

[Agape93]

Family lol

[Agape93]

Her brother specifically

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay