What would u do? what do u think of him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has had 2 DUI before he met me (in one scenario he was not driving actually but sitting in the car w a drink) and has a breathalyzer. He drinks a beer every single day but I have noticed if he has another drink and half of liquor etc (does not take much to get him inebriated is my point) he is at risk of blacking out, because he also takes lexapro (which shouldn't be mixed and he knows this) he has gotten blacked out 5+ times over the past 3 months of me knowing him. One of the times he went into his house to find his vape and then just fell asleep so I waited outside for an hour then went to return his stuff to the front door that he abandoned in the car when I realized he may be asleep. During a few of the blackouts, he has gotten angry with me. Also side note he is diagnosed w bipolar and takes lexapro which is NOT to be mixed w alcohol as it can cause severe mood swings (I have made him aware of this).

When he gets drunk he will get really mad at me for stuff I have done in the past aka staying mad at how often I brought his ex up but thats cus they followed each other on instagram for a long while of us dating (despite the fact she cheated on him in their home they had together) and she was still sending him reels periodically and I was uncomfy even tho he stopped responding shortly after meeting me. The last episode we went to hangout w his friends at this roller rink at night, I asked if he was ok because he was stumbling and he got pissed at me and then said we are leaving, then outside started to call me a bitch, cunt, and screamed "fuck you" at me while literally running flipping me off. He has talked to me like this 3 other blackouts then later apologized. I then found him slumped on the floor against a wall outside the rink and he was like "take me the fuck home" then passed out in the car and did not remember anything the next day. Would you dump him?

[Shiprex]

He's a risk you could probably do with avoiding. Maybe not a problem but you say he loses his temper with you when he has drank some. Also sounds like he's doing things you don't like and you're reminding him of that so be careful
It may not take much but one day he may do something bad and that would be fkd up.

So advice would be to seek a way out.

[ohsheeT]

He's a big mistake waiting to happen you don't need that in your life. And I'm sure it's and everyday thing. That could lead you all the wrong ways

[NoDecision]

People who drink tend to be abusive when tipsy. All their bad side comes out when they drink. Nip it in the bud as he won't be a stud, but more of a dud.

[slatyb]

Absolutely. He will ruin your life. Never get into a car when he's driving.

[Asker]

i have unfortunately and in MY CAR he has woven through traffic despite me pleading with him not to, he actually crashed his car and hit the wall of the off ramp a few days into me knowing him cus he lost control of the vehicle and he has crashed multiple cars in his life yet continues to drive thinking he's a racecar driver or some delusional shit. diagnosed w bipolar 3 I don't know if this has to do with it. but one time on the freeway he actually DROVE IN BETWEEN TWO CARS and this is after me telling him to be careful in my car.

[LiamS95]

He's a disaster and trouble waiting to happen. You may be very sorry later on if you don't cut this guy from your life.

[BarryLiverstone]

I wouldn’t date an alcoholic