Do you get jealous or hurt if your partner points out someone attractive and says they would bang them or they say Dammmmn?

[Finchie40]

Like a Model or a celebrity , that they will more than likely never meet in their lifetime and even if they did? It’s a far chance that model or celebrity would have any type of interest in them period. Do you get jealous and feel disrespected or do you just laugh about it and don’t care

[Screenwriter]

If you're just joking around, that's one thing. Yeah, I'd do Brad Pitt/Chalamet/Jamie Foxx!!! I think it's normal to say someone is attractive. Look at what she's wearing. What an outfit. Boy he's striking.

The bang thing sounds a bit strong. Attractive is fine. Dammmmnnn... not so much. And then there's context. Party talk? Drunken gathering? Casual reference?

But if someone's ALWAYS commenting on how another woman or man looks, or that they'd bang that one.. something's off about that person.

[Anonymous]

If it's like an actor or actress or a Porn star or something, it's a bit different but it is kind of a weird thing to say to your partner in my opinion. I mean I'd probably still watch porn for example if I was in a relationship just because I get Hhorney fairly often and wanking without porn is frustrating and takes too long.

When I need to wank most of the time it's basically body maintenance so I'm trying to finish as fast as I possibly can hence the porn. I'd never cheat and I would have zero interest in them sexually IRL but 90% of the time, I'm just trying to get rid of the horney as fast as possible. Besides some couples watch porn together and you can get idea's on how to get creative in the bedsheets from it too.

If you pass some random person on the street and say that to your partner though, that's when it gets very different and becomes incredibly rude. When it comes to a celebrity everyone knows it's just a fantasy that will never really happen.

[fish5505_87]

My wife used to get mad at me, when she caught me looking every now and then. Until, that is, the day I caught her!! I almost had to take her to the hospital when she almost broke her neck when a hot guy walked by!

Since then, silence! we laugh about that all the time.

[Crimsyjo]

I think I'm maybe a little better with age but it's kind of disrespectful. I've always been jealous and insecure so before I'd have full melt down. Now I can laugh it off and I understand it much more - men's visual desires are not going to vanish just cos they love you - but it will be like putting little pin pricks in our relationship. Enough of them and it's gonna deflate or go bang.

I'd prob do tit for tat pointing out hot guys. There's a few singers/songs that make me horny and melt.

[chrissykerdock]

a man would be very fortunate to have your love

[AviatorTom]

We sometimes kid each other by pointing out attractive people. It's no big deal.

[DrPepper12]

I think it's great! Your in a RELATIONSHIP not DEAD!

My SO and I disagree tho. She thinks it's disrespectful if she hears/sees me say something complimentary to another and I laugh my ass off when she does it. I even inquire further if her fir details - it's good to know who the competition is so you can improve yourself!

[chrissykerdock]

it's kind of childish something teenagers do

[__Nikki__]

It doesn't bother me at all that he finds other women attractive, I think it's totally normal and I prefer him being able to tell me than feeling like he has to hide it. I like knowing what excites him.

[whyshedoingthis]

I would probably be a bit hurt, and I would let them know. I would not end the relationship or get jealous, but I would, as stated before, be hurt. But to be honest, I really wouldn't mind as long as I know that my partner still loves me and won't leave me for the one they called attractive.

[itsannalee]

If just someone famous, nope I wouldn’t get jealous.


But if someone we know in person, or around i’ll hit him with whiskey bottle.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. We both do it all the time. Sometimes over the same woman.

[sage2021]

Those type of comments are totally uncalled for. Period.

[MikeRJ]

I think it depends on the context. If she says, "I'd bang him" then that would be obnoxious. But if she simply said he was attractive, I wouldn't mind.

[CruelParadise]

I never faced that but if I did I would break up with that specific boy in a heart beat lol

[CruelParadise]

That just seems so insensitive and clearly she’s not his type if his eyes are free to wander

[IslaTheWitch]

nope :D

it was one of the main source of jokes with my ex, and we both did it :D

[Unap0logetic_]

Jealous no, but I would definitely feel disrespected. It sounds like someone who’s dating a person that isn’t their type. (Just from the context of the question) So I would use this as a learning moment and move on.

[Dongie]

Never experienced it. If so I'd lead her over introduce her and tell him to enjoy the slut. 🤓

[Beeneez]

Someone famous no but someone random hell yeah. I’d be hurt that they thought that was appropriate

[locusteo]

Not really when its casually honest but I get annoyed when she mentions him and his big manhood etc. But nothing js off limits really. I say things annoyed as well.

[exitseven]

It would really piss me off.

[Games_]

That’s grounds for breaking up

[2Diamonds]

Not at all, I will happily point out hot women to husband to admire..

[Blueeyes81]

I think it's disrespectful.

[NathanDavis]

nope

[RedInnocent69]

No. It’s usually pretty obvious

[MoonFace2]

Nope….