Do you get jealous or upset when your partner checks out an opposite sex person and says Damn! in front of you?

[Finchie40]

Me personally finds it to be disrespectful in a sense. but not that big of a deal , It’s only a big deal if your partner is trying to make you jealous and make you feel you aren’t good enough , To me it shows someone’s true character , if they can do that in front of you , then what do you think they are doing when you aren’t around? So if your partner is doing this sort of thing in front of you , would you dump them or stay with them?

[DizzyDesii]

The majority of my dudes werent that dumb. My first boyfriend did that a lot. Another guy i dated did that when we watched porn together, which is whg I prefer to watch it solo or with non-bf groups now. And another did it when he asked for sexy pics and i said no, so then he sent me girls as an example of how i should dress and pose becquse they just looked so damn good. Smh. It was all hella disrespectful. Only time I’ve done something similar was when i’m watchin a film and see a hot celeb guy and I say without thinking “Ooo my man fine” 🙈💀

[DizzyDesii]

Its disrespectful because if you’rr gonna look, dont be rude enough to look in front of your partner

[Finchie40]

Exactly , me personally feels it’s disrespectful and rude if you are out with your partner and your attention is drawn to someone else walking by , Yes we all have eyes and sometimes we can’t help but notice someone attractive walking by us , but to say it out loud in front of your partner is rude I think , it would make me feel like she didn’t value me that much cuz I would think what is she doing when I am not around? A celebrity doesn’t faze me , the chances of her ending up in bed with that celebrity is a very slim chance lol But being out in public with your partner that is clearly checking out other people , to me is disrespectful , it’s pretty much an indication that you aren’t good enough for them and that they would easily replace you if they had the opportunity to do so , I notice a lot of questions on here are focused on jealousy and insecurity and the bottom line it comes down to people being disrespected by their partners and something they should really reconsider for being in a relationship with that type of person. You should be with someone that makes you their top priority period not waste your time with someone that doesn’t value you like you value them. It comes down to respect for each other. If a girl I am dating is checking out other guys and making comments all I am going to do is give it right back to her and check out other girls in front of her as well and basically tell her How does that feel? I can only give you what you give me , if you want to disrespect me I will so disrespect you period. Most people Don’t realize those little things can break a relationship apart , mainly because that person is selfish and only really thinking of themselves, And that’s someone that I will not waste my time with period.

[DizzyDesii]

A guy actually verbally attacked me up over my brad pitt poster that sits in my bedroom. He got that jealous. And i agree that you should prioritize your partner. And why even do to her what she she did to you? Thats immature. Just breakup and tell her its because she clearly wants to focus on other men in whats supposed to be YOUR relationship. Imm way past the “two can play that game” days.

[Finchie40]

Over a Brad Pitt poster? That is friggin ridiculous , I have posters of Hot girls in bikinis in my Man Cave that are just eye candy lol if a girl got jealous over those posters I would laugh and say you got some big time issues to work on , I dated a girl that was huge into Jonny Depp , Had is posters had a pillowcase with his picture on it , It didn’t faze me the least , I would just make jokes like Damn if I was a chick I do Jonny Depp also , Or when her I were having sex , I would jokingly say sorry Jonny she’s mine now , lol

[DizzyDesii]

I dont find johnny depp attractive at all. And i can't believe you admitted you’d do a dude 💀 But anyways, yea i had to get away from that guy because he snapped on me in a very monstrous way about Brad and i was already afraid of the dude cause he was 6’7

[Finchie40]

LOL I was only teasing her , I wouldn’t do Jonny Depp lol But I can see why you got away from that guy

[BrookeAZ90]

If either me or my boyfriend was more likely to do it, it would be me. I'd be fine if he did it. I don't see why anyone has to pretend the other 3B people of the same gender as me don't exist or they're all ugly. I make comments about celebrities or athletes being hot to him, not so much random people we come across going somewhere.

[Finchie40]

Celebrities are one thing , even models , it’s their job to draw people in. But if you are out in public with your boyfriend and he saw an attractive girl walk by and he said Damn? Would you feel a little jealous or would you just let it go? Would you feel he was being disrespectful? How would he feel if you did that to him?

[Twalli]

The reason they're dating you is because they said the same thing mentally (if not verbally) when they saw you.

[BarryLiverstone]

We all have eyes. Wouldn’t bother me

[Agape93]

Nope

[In_Trance]

no, not at all