Do you get insecure when your partner checks out someone else , or makes comments about someone else in front of you?

[Finchie40]

We all know it’s disrespectful to do , but people still do it for whatever reason. Whether they are seeking validation , or they like receiving attention from the opposite sex or they like checking out someone they find attractive, basically someone that caught their eye and making comments when they see someone attractive in front of you. Do you get upset and insecure over it or do you just ignore it and think whatever? Or do you assume your partner is up to no good , because if they can do that in front of you , what do you think they do behind your back? Would you end your relationship with them or assume your relationship is coming to an end? Especially if you don’t do that in front of them?

[ohsheeT]

No there's no reason to.. when your with someone your with them. And then with you..
I've walked in mall all before with with a couple of girlfriends.

And there will always be. A couple of few guys headed right for us and I'll start staring at my girlfriend and I just kind of smile and there's been times before I look over at my girlfriend and she looks at me and we both smile because she notices it I noticed it they notice it sometimes I look at them and say pretty nice huh...

I think every girl that I've ever dated that has happened to us walking into a store or in the mall or on the way to some place..

I mean if you're good looking people are going to look
That's part of life and that's what happens. your girlfriend or your boyfriend they didn't ask for it..
So why would you get insecure she's walking with you she's with you

Being insecure or being jealous is nothing but a waste of time and a way to cause drama.. for something that was so innocent and means nothing except for you have a good looking girlfriend or good looking boyfriend and when people look they're acknowledging that so it makes you smile makes you feel good not insecure..

[Finchie40]

It’s one thing to look , but to make it obvious you are staring or checking someone else out , clearly shows what kind of person they truly are , and something you should really reconsider , because if they can do that in front of you , just imagine what they do when you are t around. Most people have a hard time resisting temptations and then they wonder why they can’t last in a relationship with someone period. It’s disrespectful and it pretty much indicates that person just likes the convenience of you but they truly don’t love you. People like that are seeking validation because they are selfish people that only truly care about themselves and. What they feel is best for themselves , they don’t know how to give the same way they want to receive , you just become one of their stepping stones until something they feel better comes along , it’s people that do not know how to take accountability for their own selfish actions , they point the finger at you before pointing their finger at themselves first. They constantly feel they deserve better than what they already have in front of them. I dump girls’ all the time that do not know how to be respectful , that want me to be respectful to her but can’t be respectful to me. She pretty much becomes my convenience as well and I will start treating her like she treats me if nothing changes after I express my concerns to her. So if she starts treating me like a convenience , she will become my convenience as well. Basically thanks for a good time , but not a long time

[Anonymous]

I dated a girl who, among many other red flags, had a bit of a blatant wandering eye. If she was ever subtle, then, well… it happens. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re dead. A lot of people do it; so far, I don’t think I’m one of them, but a subtle oggle isn’t an issue.


She also happened to have BAD jealousy issues herself. I NEVER gave her any reason to be realistically jealous. i get some of her issues… her ex was a skanky boy, but I was nothing like him. I never flirted with anyone (except her). Imshouldnt have had to pay for his crap, but I did.


I wasn’t super jealous or anything, though when she was CONSTANTLY comparing me, making comments about all the other guys… it’s like “what am I, chopped liver?” I figured it was an attempt to make me super jealous and angry, so I don’t play into that, but she WAS getting obnoxious about her “sniffing around” other dudes.


I don’t lash out over an oggle. Blatantly gawking all the time - THEN there might be an issue with it. Her sniffing around these dudes, or putting herself in a situation where she COULD mess around, THAT becomes a problem.


If I’m dating a woman and she suddenly really wants to try dating some other guy, I’m not standing in her way. She can’t come crawling back to me, though, because we are done. Good luck to her… but she had better be sure she really wants that… the second she thinks she can go get “something something” with another guy, we’re broken up; I know I’m a pretty good boyfriend… if she wants to risk losing that for what she thinks might be better, that’s her choice. I’m not fighting for someone who doesn’t want to be with me. So getting super jealous about it isn’t my thing.

[Finchie40]

Yea the second a girl starts comparing me to other men , she becomes my ex , if she can’t respect me the same way I respect her , she isn’t the girl for me. I don’t care how hot she is , her heart is disgusting and it shows her true character of who she truly is. When a girl starts treating me like a convenience , she becomes mine as well, basically thanks for a good time , but not a long time

[Sunnysunny123]

It depends on how they do it, when and for how long. My ex who was a narcissistic, self centered asshole used to look a lot and it was obvious at first i didn't mind but then he started to stare while i was talking to him i found this very disrespectful and i got second hand embarrassment.

My now boyfriend is veeeery cautious and almost never looks but it doesn't bother me about him because he is nothing but a good man to me also most of the time when he looks it's me telling him to look 😂.

[Finchie40]

Yea it’s one thing to look but to make it obvious that you are staring is very disrespectful , and shows that person’s true character of who they really are , if they can do that in front of their partner just imagine what they do behind their partners’ back? So me personally won’t break up with a girl over it , but I will make it clear that I find it disrespectful , and if she doesn’t agree with with me , I will start doing the same thing to her , if she doesn’t like it , she can leave

[Sunnysunny123]

It definetly depends if someone is right in front of you i mean ofc you look for a second and it doesn't hurt anyone but staring and doing it very obvious to everyone around you it is just very disrespectful not just to your partner but to the person you are staring at too.

[luvstoned4him]

I won't mind the checking out because at the end of the day he is a man.

However, I believe in something called "checking out with respect". For instance, I dont expect him to make comments about another persons assets in my presence. Especially if he's in full lust and going on and on. I find it disrespectful. Even with just checking someone out, he can at least try to be discreet. I check people out to but never infront my partner but thats just me

[Finchie40]

Checking someone else out isn’t respectful whatsoever , it’s one thing to look but to check someone else out shows someone’s true character of who they truly are. If they can do that in front of you, just imagine what they do behind your back , it’s people like that , that just like the convenience of their partner but they truly don’t love and respect their partner , they might pretend that they do but really they don’t , you are just a fill in until something better comes along , they will keep you by their side until they finally meet someone they feel is better , that isn’t love , that is selfishness. People can try to sugarcoat this as much as they want to but the truth is they are selfish and only thinking about themselves. Not only are they wasting their time with someone they are wasting their partners’ time as well. Someone that truly loves you and cares about you is going to make you their top priority, and remove selfishness for you , the same way they hope you do for them. It’s one thing to look at someone attractive but to stare and try to make eye contact with someone else , shows their true character of who they truly are , You can ignore it and not make a big deal about it but understand you truly aren’t being loved , you are being used.

[luvstoned4him]

@Finchie40 I meant to watch them.. not the staring and getting attention but more like they are admiring the beauty... and I get what you are saying

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s just as bad as well if they are watching them pretty much the whole time and being distracted from you , it honestly would make me really reconsider that relationship with that girl if she continued to do shit like that. Because that pretty much tells me what she does behind my back. So I would more than likely kick her to the curb where she belongs

[luvstoned4him]

@Finchie40 thats literally every guy where am from so my only two options would be to A) remain single forever, lol or just ignore it as long as he is taking care of my needs and not cheating on me

[Finchie40]

Honestly @luvstoned4him that is sad to hear , don’t just settle with someone that provides for you or takes care of you , that isn’t love , you are selling yourself short if that’s how you are being treated, you were put on Earth to find true love , not put on Earth to be a convenience, Someone that truly loves you is going to respect you and value you and make you their top priority , they aren’t going to go behind your back and betray you or flirt with other people , they are going to treat you the way you treat them , especially if those are things you do to them. So never allow yourself to be a convenience to anyone , life is too short for that nonsense , a loving partner is going to wear your shoes the same way you he expects you to wear his not the other way around , I had my fair share of lying selfish girls’ that said they wanted to be loved and wanted commitment and honesty and loyalty and the second I showed them I wanted the same , and gave them the same , they eventually changed their minds and betrayed me and backstabbed me , basically trading me in for someone they thought was better , little did they realize they were wrong , and you know what they did? They all tried getting me back once they realized how selfish and pathetic they were being , but I told them all NOPE , you had your chance and you blew it. I treat a partner the same way i want to be treated in return and I make her my priority the same way I want her to do for me. I don’t think it’s asking for much but apparently in todays’ world it seems to be. So I threw in the towel on jumping into relationships and take the very slow approach when I meet a girl that I am interested in , I just treat her like a friend to give us both time to really get to know each other and if I really like her I will ask her if she would like to be FWB’s with some strings attached , meaning we only have sex with each other and no one else , but if we do? We promise to end the benefits part and just remain

[Finchie40]

Friends , with the way this society is today and social media screwing up our heads , I feel this is the best approach for myself and for her to give us both time to really get to know each other and to see if we would make it the long haul over the short haul. Because I take commitment seriously , I am no longer giving my heart to a girl that just shits on it whenever she gets bored or something better comes along

[luvstoned4him]

@Finchie40 I thank you for your insight. Well where am from hookup culture is extreme. I guess some men fall on the spectrum that you mentioned. Rather be friends with benefits then hope it develops into something more. However, the majority lie and cheat and ruin good people. So most of us just settle and deal with it. I'm single and a virgin and whole some might look at me strangely or think my standards are too high, Its situations like these I've been running from all my life. When I try to express my self worth or value, it's looked down upon or am looked at being a prude or some other thing. I'm at the point where am tired of looking for someone who would commit and treat me right. So I might as well remain single for ever because.. what really is love?

[Finchie40]

Love is giving the same way you would like to receive , without love we really don’t have we really don’t have much purpose in life , Yes you can choose to love yourself but you can’t choose someone to love you , if you can’t give the same way you want to receive

[luvstoned4him]

@Finchie40 I know but it's all so depressing sometimes

[Finchie40]

Life in general is depressing at times , so it’s better to have someone that can lift
Ya up when you are down , instead of having no one

[luvstoned4him]

@Finchie40 absolutely

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the eternal dance of the wandering eye! My aim is to help navigate these murky waters with a bit of insight and humor. 😎✨ It's natural to feel a twinge of insecurity when your partner checks out someone else. After all, nobody likes feeling like the second option at a buffet! But jumping to conclusions about what's happening behind your back may not be the wisest move.

A little harmless appreciation of beauty is okay, but if it's crossing boundaries and making you uncomfortable, it’s time for a heart-to-heart. Communication is key! Express your feelings in a calm and open manner, and see if you can establish boundaries that both of you are comfortable with. There's no need to assume the worst, but being in a relationship means ensuring your feelings are respected. Remember, if someone can’t handle a little respect in your presence, they might not deserve your love at all! 😘💌

[Apple1996]

Yeah I would not put up with a man doing that even if i wasn't around. It's creepy af in general to be checking people out. I feel uncomfortable when men do it to me

[Anonymous]

I'll give a gender neutral response on this, because this should work both ways.

I think it's natural to at least glance or look. Don't do it too much in the presence of your partner out of respect, unless you both already have an agreement on what's okay and what isn't.

I had an ex who would automatically see fat asses before I would, and would get pre-mad at me and threaten me in my ear not to look a certain direction. Petty jealousy, and I absolutely loathed it.

• Short glance ✔️
• Stare 🚫
• Comment 🚫 (unless agreed on with partner beforehand)

As with everything, I'm going to stress figuring out what your partner is okay with and discussing it at some point. I do think there's such a thing as too controlling or jealous, when even the briefest glance or idea of a glance pisses them off, then you've got an insecurity issue on your hands.

Don't make it obvious you've looked, and don't chat up an attractive stranger without a good reason. When you're with your partner you're supposed to make each other feel safe and minimize unnecessary jealousy. Within reason, of course.

[idonotlikeyou]

What do you think is disrespectful about sharing an opinion on someone's appearance? As long as the person we're talking about doesn't hear us, everything is fine. Unless we're speaking in superlatives, then they can hear.

All of us have opinions about food, the weather, work, and other people's appearance. We all share them with close ones. Why should I feel insecure just because my boyfriend is normal and has those opinions too? Besides, I do the same. If I see an attractive guy, I have no problem checking him out and commenting on him.

[Finchie40]

All I was saying it might be disrespectful to your partner if you are out with them and they are constantly checking out other people and making comments in front of you , instead of putting their attention on to you instead. It’s one thing to look at someone else , that’s what eyes are for , but to make comments to your partner might make your partner feel uncomfortable around you , because if you can do that to them , then they will think what you do when you are not with them. So the respectful thing to do is just keep it to yourself , like why do you have to announce it and make your partner feel uncomfortable, like what are you honestly gaining from that? What is your boyfriend gaining by him doing that to you? I see beautiful girls’ all the time and I don’t announce it , out of respect for my partner. Why make your partner feel jealous if you truly cared about them and loved them?

[idonotlikeyou]

@Finchie40
Only an insecure partner would treat a natural mechanism, like noticing and checking out interesting people, as disrespectful or threatening to his position as my partner. No one talks about doing it constantly, but such situations will happen. Fighting against natural mechanisms is doomed to fail.

If I’m with my partner, I chose him from a crowd of others. Him. So my comments about other people, both women and men, are exactly that... comments, not pointing out his shortcomings or saying he’s worthless because of something. How insecure does a guy have to be to even think like that?

[Finchie40]

Well some people take it the wrong way so it’s best not to be disrespectful , whether they are insecure or not , so the respectful thing to do is keep it to yourself , it’s one thing to say oh I like his or her outfit , or shoes they are wearing , but to bluntly say oh , look at him or her , they are very attractive and hot , like what is even the purpose of even having to say something like that to your partner? Like you are trying to get a rise from them or some shit. Your partner doesn’t really care about who you find attractive or not. How would you feel if your boyfriend was pointing out every hot chick he notices to you? Wouldn’t you feel disrespected by that knowing your boyfriend is out with you and focusing on everyone else around you but you? It’s one thing to look but to make you partner aware that you are checking someone else out is pretty selfish of you if you find that to me ok. I wouldn’t go out with a girl and point out every hot girl I see , out of respect for her , my time with her is our time together , my focus is on her , if your focus isn’t on your partner , then you should really reconsider your relationship with that person period because you aren’t respectful to them the same way you want the to be respectful to you. Your boyfriend does not want to hear what other guy you find hot or attractive , whether he is insecure or not. It clearly shows that person’s true character of who they truly are , Disrespectful

[idonotlikeyou]

@Finchie40
We’re talking about different things. If my partner has an issue with me noticing and commenting on the world around me (including people of both genders), he quickly stops being my partner. The man of my life, when I say "look at that guy's chest," sees a chest of someone who spends half his life at the gym, not someone better than him. The man of my life, when I say "damn, that actor is insanely handsome," sees exactly what I’m describing—a face that, from an aesthetic point of view, is worth admiring, and nothing more.

You see, I don’t choose my man for aesthetic reasons. I choose him because with just words, he can bring me to the edge of an orgasm. Because he can engage me in new topics, because he knows how to use the white and gray matter in his brain. And you know, this man would never feel insulted or humiliated by the fact that I have eyes, use them, and share my observations with him, just as he shares his with me.

To me, this is what a real relationship is about, where the foundation is love and trust, not insecurities and control.

[Finchie40]

Yea we were talking about 2 different things

[MillieMin]

No not at all, I have no problem with him noticing other women, I know it's me he wants to be with. It's unrealistic to expect him to immediately find all other women unattractive as soon as he's in a relationship, and I'd rather he can be open about it than feel he has to hide it.

[Josey29]

I have a rule, if he can't keep his eyes to himself out of respect for me... he's immediately blocked.

[nron987]

Found the person that gets insecure guys.

[woahhh152]

Good luck being single haha

[ThinkerShell]

@nron987 @woahhh152
I dont get you two
Whats making you look happy here? It looks more of a histric reaction to what you can't handle isn't it? :)

[Josey29]

@ThinkerShell I've had many married men stare at me and flirt with me in front of their wives. That's messed up!

[ThinkerShell]

@Josey29 modern human wants to overcome "everything" even himself!
Controlling eyes and limiting your instincs for the sake of your wife/husband annoys you? Ok you should stand against whatever! Annoys you!
Thats why

[Josey29]

@ThinkerShell I'm not talking about a glace. I'm talking about a blatant eye f*cking. I'm talking about an obvious flirt.

If you can't keep it in your pants, don't get into a relationship.

[Josey29]

@woahhh152 I don't have trouble getting men. Thank though 😉

[Finchie40]

I agree , it’s disrespectful to be out with your partner and eye fucking someone else , , it’s also disrespectful having a partner that isn’t with you at the time , and you are eye fucking someone else it shows lack of respect in your relationship. It’s one thing if you just look real fast because we do have eyes that see , but to act on it , is disrespectful and it pretty much shows your true character as a person. If you can’t stay loyal and faithful and respectful to your partner , then you answered your own question that you shouldn’t be in a relationship with that person period. You just like the convenience of them , but you truly don’t love them , you pretty much only love yourself. When I am in a relationship with a girl that treats me like Gold , she is my top priority , and I pretty much become blind to all other girls’ because she is the girl that holds my heart , the same way I hope she does for me. That’s where respect comes into a relationship, basically what you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to be the same boundaries for you as well, not the other way around. It’s one thing to be approached by the opposite sex that is showing interest in you , but the respectful thing to do is to decline their interest in you , you don’t have to be rude about it , just tell them sorry I am already in a relationship with someone else , but thank you for noticing me and then walk away. Resisting temptation should t be hard to do , if you truly Love and care about your partner

[Finchie40]

I have done this for all my girlfriends’ sadly they could t do the same for me , so now they are my exes lol

[Josey29]

I agree 💯%! No one needs to be looking if they're supposed to be in love with someone else.

[Med_guy1978]

My other half and I would turn our heads and comment on the opposite sex if someone hot walked past. Didn't bother me, didn't bother her. Even if she was with the hottest guy and he was with the hottest girl, one would still look. Sorry, but it's natural. There are many who pretend they don't but do, they just do it inconspicuously as females tend to. Guys are usually very blatant but females are usually very discreet. Anyway, what makes us think we're the best, there will always be someone hotter. I use it as a learning point, example... A guy walks past and my other half comments on a nice shirt he's wearing or nice shoes. I'll compromise on that next time I buy something to potentially make her happy.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't mind if it is just a look, I even had an ex compare my boobs to someone else and say mine are bigger. But if there is more to it like he is staring, turning his head or full checking a woman out, going up and chatting with her, he will feel my wrath. Don't do that shit in my presence unless you want to see me piss you off with other men, because it is super easy to ignore a guy and flirt with others. If you make me feel insecure I will make you feel worse.

[Finchie40]

Yea looking for a second is one thing , but to stare and make an attempt is clearly disrespectful and pretty much shows someone’s true character of who they truly are because if they can do that in front of their partner? Imagine what they do when their partner isn’t with them?

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah that is so true.. I most likely would not be able to date someone like that.

[Shamalien]

I’m not keeping that close an eye on them, nor do I really care. So long as they are faithful to me physically and in their heart, they can look wherever they please. I mean if it’s 5 seconds plus ogling she can calm down but girls are not about to be caught doing that anyway.

And as a man I actually cannot control it. It’s lizard brain shit. If my partner noticed me checking a girl out and said something I’d immediately stop out of respect, and tbh I don’t think I make a huge habit of this, but as a man I know it’s unconscious.

[Tarifa]

No, I don't get insecure. It's all down to trusting your partner. My wife sometimes goes out for dinner with her friends. She told me that a guy started talking to her. She handled it quite well and told him she wasn't interested. I don't get insecure or jealous when guys look at her at the beach. It's normal, she knows that.

Making comments is a different matter though. There's no need.

[itsannalee]

No i’m not, i’m not that insecure. My boyfriend doesn’t do that, but I don’t mind if he looks at other people because he has eyes.

[ThinkerShell]

And has heart
And penis
So?

[itsannalee]

What even your point?
Some men are classy, and some are cheap. And not every men are like you🤫

[ThinkerShell]

Dont get mad on me
I dont offense
I meant by your logic where you say checking at others cos he has eyes is ok, so then loving them cos he has heart or fucking them cos he has a penis should be ok
Though i dont think you meant this!
Did you?

[DrPepper12]

Hell no!! Why would I? Bye others complimenting her they're complimenting me by proxy and actually displaying their jealousy of me. You guys go on! Hit on or all you want! I will laugh my ass off as she rejects you in the coldest way possible and giggle to myself that I'm the one taking her home tonight not you fuckboi!! It's the BEST entertainment tbh! I said before on this site that I simply don't understand jealousy. I really don't. I can't process the mechanism how it works.

[MemeSupreme]

bro we sit in our car and check out milfs all the time in the parking lot

[Lottydotty]

I'd prefer checking other people out together. Like "damn she's got them goods on that rack to some hot granny walking by". "He's not just delivering, he's Dijorno". "Just need to slap em thangs"

That's kinda just fun I think. Honest instead of trying to hide what's natural and probably feeling more on edge.

[LostandFound__x]

I wouldn’t get insecure but I’d take it as disrespectful

[exitseven]

I have been married for a long time but I can remember whan something like that would bother me

[Ladsin2]

Would you be more or less upset if your wife did it?

[exitseven]

@Ladsin2 I would be pretty upset

[Ladsin2]

Do you think moreso than when y'all were dating or less so?

[exitseven]

@Ladsin2 probably about the same.

[Ladsin2]

Thanks.

[thegreenyogi]

No because eyes are made for looking and guys do it a lot.

[ThinkerShell]

And hearts are made for loving and penises for fucking !!!

[SmileyLady]

It’s ok to look. Everyone looks. Acting on it once in a committed relationship is cheating.

[smashleyy]

I don’t recall a partner ever doing that to me but if they did and it was coming from a malicious place, trying to get a rise out of me it would hurt my feelings and cause me to question their character

[Ladysofetch]

At first I didn't because he made me feel secure about our relationship And made me feel like I was the prettiest one in the room.. then he kinda stopped making me feel secure and now it really bothers me when he checks girls out and yell that I'm wrong when I call him on it.. just make whoever you're with secure and confident and you'll be fine...

[Finchie40]

Sadly that’s a red flag that you shouldn’t overlook , especially if he never did that before with you , but all of a sudden he is? That’s clearly a sign of his true character of who he really is , because the guy you first met was the fake version of him just so he could sweep you off your feet , but now that he accomplished his goal by getting you , his true colors are finally shining. I have dated girls’ that were just like that , in the beginning she was head over heels for me , being loving and respectful and kind , but after sometime , her true colors would shine and become a complete opposite girl then the girl i first met , that’s usually when I start to put one foot out the door and express my feelings of concern to her , if nothing changes after that? I am out

[Anonymous]

My partner doesn't do that at least not in front of me.

[Ladsin2]

I don't think insecure would be the word. I'd be pissed because it's blatant disrespect.

[blinkyT8T]

my ex did the checking out
with girls
I would make comments
About other guys

Terrible Couple 😂

[NathanDavis]

nope... and I don't find it disrespectful either

I just never had the need to get insecure like that before

[idonotlikeyou]

Mr. Perfect doesn't feel insecure in any situation, or are there some that make you lose that 'perfect guy' vibe after all?

[NathanDavis]

@idonotlikeyou unsure... sometimes

insecure, no... that's just never my answer anymore, but that is not about me really... it is more about the fact that I have been very selective in my oast relationships and therefore... I never had to deal with these situations

the rest is just experience, communication and understanding and the way I had it too {positive ones}

[idonotlikeyou]

@NathanDavis
I have an irresistible feeling that the word 'insecure' terrifies you in your context. Because how could Mr. Perfect be insecure? That's unacceptable!

But every person has some insecurities. And they are usually connected to interactions with other people, especially those involving strong emotions. So, Mr. Perfect, what level of honesty do you offer?

[NathanDavis]

@idonotlikeyou how much of it are you willing to take... or, ignore...

[idonotlikeyou]

@NathanDavis Try me. But don’t expect me to pity you or treat you more gently than I treat others.

[NathanDavis]

@idonotlikeyou I would suggest you go take a closer look at my Opinions tag... and keep scrolling down

all 50,000+ none of them are hidden, none of them are anonymous, they're all open and honest... and there's plenty of topics

one of the most recent ones, is actually on the topic of insecurities, so... would you like me link you to them... or can you find them yourself at your own pace and time?

[NathanDavis]

by the way, Bedelia...

can I call you Bedelia from now on, or... are were not friends...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TRIgjmEvHaE

[idonotlikeyou]

@NathanDavis
"would you like me link you to them..."
Yes.

[idonotlikeyou]

@NathanDavis
Gillian is a walking perfection. You can call me whatever you like, especially if it is after her.

[NathanDavis]

@idonotlikeyou she can absolutely, be, yes...

[BetaBucks]

Not even slightly insecure. More like grossed out. Like "my girl is a fucking scumbag whore" instead of "what's wrong with me?"

[TacosRAwesome]

It's fine if he does it once in a while. But if it's constant it would bother me.

[MikeTheBartender]

If someone did it often she wouldn't be my partner.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but if she were to actually flirt with someone else I'd dump her on the spot, or if she bit when someone flirted with her.

[genericname85]

no. it makes me happy, cause they're with me and not with them.

[soe11]

• Not at all.
• I trust my girlfriend.
• She can deal her self.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Depends on the level of interest shown, I’d say a fair bit of discomfort but nothing crazy

[Kellyamy]

I don't because I feel it's normal.. nature

[ThinkerShell]

And what if he "naturally" go with another female?

[Finchie40]

If he goes with another female? , then he isn’t the guy for her period , if we have eyes that see , we are all going to look , but out of respect for your partner, you shouldn’t make it obvious you are looking , it just shows signs of being disrespectful , especially if your partner has their eyes on you , but instead you are looking elsewhere. It could be an indication that , you don’t truly value your partner , they are just a convenience to you until something better comes along. and can make your partner feel they can’t really trust you when you aren’t around them. It’s a lack of respect in a relationship. It’s like everyone that plays on their phone when they have company over , instead of you focusing on what they have to say , you are focusing on your phone instead of, which makes you disrespectful that you have company over and your phone is more important to you. So wandering eyes can be disrespectful to your partner if they feel your focus isn’t on them , Some of the girls’ I dated when we were out in public would make comments saying I saw you checking out the girl? When really I wasn’t , but I would just say Where? Is she hot? Damn I missed it. lol

[Anonymous]

Not for long. I simply wouldn't tolerate it.

[nova1014]

Yes it makes me jealous

[Agape93]

Nope

[jojouzumaki]

Not at all.

[Hannajenky]

Generally no

[MK1997]

Didn't care

[CubaPirate]

Nah I'm not jealous or insecure generally

[In_Trance]

No i don't

[zombiewoof]

Nope