Is he interested?

[Anonymous]

So I have been messaging this guy for two weeks now ( he is 28 and I'm soon to be 26). I sent me a friend request on facebook, I accepted and then he started to text me. He was since the beginning not the fastest to answer my texts, sometimes he could answer within a few minutes and sometimes it could go 2-4 hours, I was totally fine with that. He asks questions and seems to want to get to know me. But these last few days he answers less frequently like every 10 hours and today he has not answered my text for 24 hours. I don't understand because he keeps asking questions but is not answering me. What does it mean? Is he even interested? I feel like i want to ask him why he replies so slowly but i'm not his mother. Also we been texting two weeks but have never met IRL.

[HollyK21]

The better question is have you asked what this guy is looking for? I don't know about you but I was always very big on not wasting my time and asking important questions sooner than later. You’ve already invested 2 months into this guy yet don’t even know if he’s interested or what his intention was for adding you. It would be much better to know where he stands so that you can decide if this is someone you want to keep speaking with.

[Anonymous]

Is he someone from your area? Make sure he’s not a catfish! Sounds like he likes you… maybe he’s been busy the past few days?

[BarryLiverstone]

He was excited in the beginning but you all haven’t met yet so as time goes on he is less excited

[Asker]

but why does he not ask me out? he was the one that added me

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe he does know that you think he’s attractive

[BarryLiverstone]

Just because he added you, you could still ask him out

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is, you should take initiative and you'll see.

[Nikki1989]

Facebook and texts?

And you ask, is he interested? Try the real world instead.

[EmmaMary]

Both @HollyK21 & @Nikki1989 have summed this up in it's entirety.